Learn To LOVE Being Alone!

in #life8 years ago

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As technology accelerates, I find that we are becoming increasingly lonely. It's sad, Humans are very social animals, and yet we willingly cut ourselves off from people to spend time looking at our phones.
Many of us can't seem to handle being alone,

Even though there are times when we have to. It seems though these days, Many people have become somewhat clingy to the people they are close to.
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It Allows you to be yourself Fully

When you are alone, you can be yourself. Fully! You may be lucky enough to have people in your life that you can be yourself around, but I feel like there's always a little holding back.

You Can Think Deeply

Other people are always so distracting, and I find that when I have a tough decision to make, I like to sit back and think critically about things. And weigh every option and angle. That way I can fully understand the implications of my decision.

Life throws a lot of choices at us, And at the end of the day If we pick the wrong one. Sometimes we'll end up regretting it years down the road.
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You Can Have Just As Much Fun Alone, As with other people!

So many people overestimate their ability to enjoy things with others. Sure it's nice to experience something with someone else. But it's also fun to experience the same thing alone.
Also if you make a mistake and embarrass yourself. You won't have anyone you know around to tease you for it!

Being alone is something that should occasionally be enjoyed by everyone. Instead of being looked at as a bad thing in society.

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I feel like I do love being alone because then I can’t get hurt by others , I can do more things on my own without being judged . While growing up I’d always love being alone and having “me” time so I could always think to myself . I always plug my headphones in and just see where life takes me

I have no problem being alone but I still need to know that someone is caring about me. It's weird, we want to be wanted and appreciated but sometimes we also want to be by ourselves. I think a balance is important for sure.

Having lived 15 years abroad and having had my own apartment I have really learned to be on my own and more importantly appreciate that time alone.

@kaylinart since I am an only child it was never that hard for me to be alone when I was growing UP. In fact I reveled in being an only child because many of my childhood friends had brothers or sisters and they would have to share their stuff with those brothers and sisters, NOT ME ! LOL

it is a wise decision to love thyself . people are too cruel these days. upvoted

I am very motivated with your writing this, thanks for share your
experience..

I think technology is reducing our emotional ties a little. I thought it would increase in the beginning, when we want to talk we have the possibility to talk with the phone by voice or video. These facilities have weakened the ties of people. Everyone is looking at the phone at every moment, playing games if you get bored. Do you read as many books as the old one? Do you have face-to-face conversations as long as you used to be? @kaylinart

A very special publication Thank you for sharing this special moment of your life

when i'm alone i read books. It helps me to forget all my depressions and most importantly it provides me a wide range of knowledge

Now a days and future only one thing will important that is 'TIME'. Most of people don't have time to each others and time is going very fast and never will come again. So everyone should spend time to enjoy this beautiful life.'Life can't revert back'

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