Life is a bitch | Accept the truth
Truth hurts, but someone has to tell it at some point, because it’s necessary.
If you’re the kind of person that gives up after the first failure or that is always waiting for the right moment to do something, you need to read this post.
If you’re ready to take responsibility for your life and improve your life quality, try to apply these 5 harsh truths starting today.
Nobody stops their life for your pain
If you’re still waiting for a hero to come and save you and heal your heart, you’re probably going to wait your whole life.
The only person that can help you is yourself. Other people can make you happy, but you shouldn’t depend on others in order to be happy!
Waiting for the “perfect” moment
If you’re still waiting for the perfect moment to go on a trip, go to the gym or go on a diet, keep waiting.
There’s no perfect moment for anything, there’s only a right moment. This reaction is based on your fear of change. Do something when you feel like doing it. There’s a say, “It’s better to feel sorry about the things I’ve done, than to regret those that I didn’t do”.
Giving up at the first defeat
If you’ve tried hard to achieve a goal and you failed, welcome to reality! It’s time to change your point of view on failure, because it’s not that bad as you think.
It’s just an opportunity to learn, a lesson. If the successful people would have gave up after the first defeat, there wouldn’t have been any successful people.
Tomorrow isn’t guaranteed
Stop delaying things, because you never know when it’s too late. Live in the present, show the people you care about that you love them, do everything you want to do and start taking care of yourself and your health.
You have more time than you think
Although I said that tomorrow isn’t guaranteed, you shouldn’t live with the fear that your life might end.
You have to eliminate the phrase “I don’t have enough time” from your vocabulary. There are 168 hours in each week.
Studies show that the average person spends 2.8 hours a day in front of the TV. I believe that watching TV isn’t going to make your life better.
Use that time to do something that matters to you and to the world. When you say “I don’t have time” it’s like saying “it’s not a priority for me”.
You don’t have time to do fitness? Than fitness isn’t a priority for you. You don’t have time to see a doctor? You health isn’t a priority for you.
You don’t have enough time to do something nice for your partner? Than your relationship isn’t a priority for you. It sounds harsh, but it’s the truth.
The above got me. I remembered when I was damn broke at school and went to a relative for help. This guy told me straight to my face that the world is a jungle and showed me his account of 70,000+ Naira (about $440).
What I needed was the equivalent of 3,000 Naira ($1.8) that time. I was sad but then I reasoned, he doesn't owe me any favor and that the one I considered family might be the opposite.
I now only work and trust they who show their loyalty and commitment.
Being true and honest to yourself and others helps you enjoy the moment of now.
Thanks for the post! We're all one somehow.
I really like this article. I'm living in a bitch life hahaha. Truth hurts. . Keep motivativating people, you are awesome.
Life really can be hurting and also beautiful at som point. Shit happens, but we have to follow suit and take things one step at a time.
This so wonderful to read. It reminds me of the fact that life isn't fair, life won't always give me what I deserve. So I gotta persist
Wonderful post @jwolf
I really like this post ........great
I love your drawing.really awesome.../////////
Quite logical point to remit the miseries of failure through this approach,
Several do inverse to this approach that why they face defeat again and again.
Thanks for the suggestion @jwolf :)
Life is definitely a bitch sometimes, but don't fuck it. :D
Aaah this is something needed after I was down yesterday. Thanks for the post