Why did you break up with your partner?
So my partner and I had been together for years. We seemed inseparable or so I thought.
We loved each other, talked about many things together, played and laughed together. We even talked about the future together as I never thought I was gonna get separated from him.
Soon, he had to leave town and that was the beginning of our breakup.
Few months into the long distance, I realized that so many things were not just in place.
Our communication dropped. We started talking less and chatting less.
I complained continuously about this and he ended up saying I was just being melodramatic, nothing was wrong with our relationship, we were just fine and I should stop worrying. At a point, he even complained that I was nagging. I was upset but I didn't let it show, I wanted us to work and so I was willing to do anything and even take all the blame.
Subsequently, our daily communication reduced to once in three or four days and subsequently once in a week. Most of the time, I did all of the calling. I didn't fail to bring this to his notice to which he said it was because he was busy.
This continued and most times, we'd only get to talk once in a month with me of course, doing all of the calling. I felt we needed a break or perhaps, I needed to leave him alone. I did and that was the end of us. I just stopped trying to make us work.