Our days are in our UNIQUENESS

In my relationship with the first girl friend I ever dated was filled with so much love.

We had love for each other, she loved me spending quality time with her. she was not a buy me gift kind of person.

Don't get it wrong she may accept gifts but I knew that she preferred me having quality time with her than any gift I sent to her.

She loved the weekend's together, more than all she want to for us to always have us spend quality time together.

When we broke up it was not a good time for me at all, I will save you the details.

In my second relationship the girl was beautiful and she loved gifts she was the opposite of my first girl friend .She loved to be spoilt with gifts.

I loved her after all she didn't require so much of my time.

Just that there was already a system I was used to, it was the system of my first girl friend it was less cost to maintain.

Just that there was already a system I was used to, it was the system of my first girl friend it was less cost to maintain.

However I loved the both of them for who they were.

The difference in this two Ladies is just an amazing way to understanding "uniqueness" of each individual in life.

If we learn to understand our uniqueness then our best days are here.

You're are who you are, people's perception of you should not change you.

You're who you're not who you're perceived to be .

In your difference from others lies your unique abilities. Life will be boring if not for individual uniqueness.

Trying to be another is loosing your own uniqueness.

You are unique just the way you're.

You must love yourself.

You must love the colour of your skin.

You must love the entire personality that you posses.

You must enjoy companionship with yourself .

You must be intentional about saying nice this about yourself.

You are the one who truly understand who you are, do not let someone's idea of You define your life.

You may not be as tall as You think you should be, its your uniqueness.
why bother yourself about the person who is tall. some girls will still not like them.

Why are you trying to change the colour of your skin, your skin does not determine how much you earn if it does everyone of us will have themselves turned to the colour, save a few.

Your uniqueness lies in the perception of you by your inner self.

Now ask yourself who am I ?
What are my abilities?
What is special about me ?

You will find great answers that will reveal more unique things that you never thought was there in your life.

I have seen men who loves to cook it doesn't change who they're, I have seen women who loves engineering it doesn't change who they're as well.

Sometimes we care so much about the society and what people will say and we become another person gradually losing what makes us UNIQUE and true to ourselves.

If we must live our best lives we must live it from our UNIQUE position that makes us different from others damming whatever ever people will say or how people will perceive us .
live life happily I am always @juli1 do have a nice lovely day. Don't forget to do the needing upvote and follow.