"The person that you want to make time for you"...
Yes, and if you also want to that person you will understand that their responsibilities may be made from time to time and even with many daily duties you are still occupying a greater percentage in your life at the time to devote time to "someone".
You should appreciate that, don't complain and feel how beautiful it is that another person you spend the little time that does not have.
Remember that time is more valuable than another person can give, be grateful.