Steemit Engagement Challenge ||SEC-S11W4 -""More Freedom""
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Hello Friends
I am @jollymonoara from Bangladesh .
Right now, the Engagement Challenge @steemkidss is about to enter its 4th season on a very beautiful topic. That is freedom as parents or children. Each of us has a freedom including ourselves. It can be to his parents or to his child. Most of the time we cannot do what we want to do because we are not given our full rights be it in childhood and work. Others have to take the responsibility of making decisions, we just invent, we have no freedom to promote it.
Everyone, be it parents or children, should be given some time in his own world, so that he can walk with a little freedom. Freedom is a social right of every citizen.
Contest: Steemit Engagement Challenge ||SEC-S11W4 -""More Freedom""
There are hints in these Engagement Challenge season 4 of Freedom where we can voice our opinions. So how much freedom should I give or take as a mother or as a child?
What do you understand to be freedom as a parents or kid? |
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"Freedom" means he is free who is not under others. A person can work at any time from any location of his choice without any hindrance in his work. Here he should have freedom on any subject such as workplace, family life, personal freedom, social field, economic field and national field etc.
Here we cannot impose one's attitude or judgment on others. It undermines his freedom. He is independent in his field of work. Freedom is his civil right, we can't take away the great achievement by force. That is, independence is the extent to which a person can act independently in managing his own life. That is, his self-control over his own life.
As in this Steemit platform we are free, we can do our work as we want, no one is interfering. This is an example of us working independently.
So much for racial freedom but we as parents and children need some freedom.
When we were children, we were totally dependent on them. From what we eat to when we need it, parents used to choose. But as we grew up with time, our needs gradually increased and some secrets started coming between us. Once upon a time, we started to think differently about what we wanted and what we wanted.
But then parents don't want to understand their children, don't give them any space, forcefully impose decisions on them. Parents want to decide what they will eat, where they will go, what they will study. A child has the humanity at a young age but not that humanity at the age of a teenager. They should also be given some space to grow up. All parents want the development of their children. One day the child's freedom must be trusted somewhere. Parents should only be friendly with them.
From childhood, parents teach children all kinds of things from daily life, but there is a time when there is no need for education, they learn on their own. So then they should be allowed to say.
Today I have become a mother, I understand that now I should give freedom to the child at least in some of his matters. Everything but he will not share with me what his friend will share. So they should be allowed to take some decisions but one thing should be taken care of so that this freedom is not used unfairly.
What can make you to grant more freedom to your kids or what can you do to earn more freedom |
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Yes, I can give some freedom to my children or I can take some freedom from my parents. What he needs most is faith. That's why faith is the key. If the child can gain full trust then he should be given full freedom in any decision.
If the child sincerely gets the freedom given by the parents and obeys all the orders and prohibitions, and does not ask for injustice, then each parent will stick to the decision of the child, who will approve his decision.Here there should be trust and love of parents towards the child.
So I think everything is possible in the world with faith and love.
Advantages and disadvantages of freedom both to parents and children |
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Independence has many advantages as well as disadvantages for both parents and children.
Advantages
A parent can consciously provide the child with benefits that will build a friendship between them.
Parents will be able to pay more attention to them and will know immediately if they are involved in any wrongdoing.
By doing this, those who want to get more and more freedom will be able to be independent. As a result, children are determined to be responsible to their parents.
Father and mother do not have to interfere with the child's personal things secretly, the child can already talk freely with them.
A beautiful bond is formed between the child and the parents so that both of them can devote more time to each other.
As a result, any wrongdoing of the child will be reduced.
Disadvantages
There are many children who do not want to obey the discipline of their parents, too much discipline is counterproductive.
Excessive discipline makes the child disobedient.
Too many children see their parents' love as weakness. For this reason, when they are given freedom, they use this opportunity to commit more wrongdoing.
So while giving more freedom to children, many parents do not observe their daily activities regularly. As a result, they end up with bad friends and commit baseless actions which are reprehensible to the society.
The reins of the child's freedom must be in the hands of the parents, otherwise the rope will be torn.
So I think that children should be given freedom but in special cases, otherwise they could not protect the respect of parenthood by getting more freedom. "There is a saying that too much rule destroys the weavers".
What can cause one to lose the freedom he or she has? |
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There are many families who prefer to have more eye-to-eye contact with their children. They do not report the child or his activities in any way. They keep obstructing in all activities. They only obstruct what they want to do without encouraging them. This makes the children more angry. Once they get freedom from their parents, they cannot hold on to it. Despite having complete freedom, their attitude deteriorates.
They keep thinking when they will be deprived of freedom again.
Again, when this achievement of freedom is in the eyes of an enemy, then they will not be able to accept the freedom of this child, that is, they will want the children to go astray at any cost.
- It appears that with more freedom, children can become drug addicts and stardom.
Everyone has an interest in forbidden things. That is, just as the positive site of a magnet attracts the negative, if you hear the forbidden word while doing something, but the tendency to do that forbidden work increases. This is how everyone can lose freedom.
Why is freedom necessary? |
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A short word is freedom. The desire to live independently is what motivates any person to follow his path. If any task is pre-arranged then that task can be done independently very easily. A well-planned work helps organize the life, no work without a plan is successful. And for this beautiful planning, a beautiful independent thinking is needed.
As a child grows, the desire to touch the sky arises. All the while he instills courage in himself that one day he will reach the pinnacle of success.
But if he has no freedom in these things, how can he conquer everything? If he does not have the freedom to think about something in his mind, he will fall before reaching the top. So if he cannot be free in every step of life, he will fall due to negligence. So freedom of mind is absolutely necessary in every case whether it is against the wishes of parents..
I think every person has their own personality, their own feelings, wants and personal issues. Freedom is needed for that. In order to invent anything, there must be independence because one cannot invent while being subjugated.
That's all about my concept .
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@jollymonoara
I want to invite my friends to the challenge s11w4,they are -@shahariar1,@shahid76 and @sohankhan.
@jollymonoara, thank you very much for inviting me in new engagement challenge. Yes i will try to participate on this engagement. Thank you again.
My twitter link
https://x.com/jollymonoara/status/1692825983718707605?s=46
Nice entry dear..
Congratulations!
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Dear sister,you have written very well about Freedom. Thank you very much for inviting me, I will definitely try to participate in this contest. Best wishes to you.
Dear,@jollymonoara
First of all I would like to thank you for inviting me to this engagement challenge.
I think parents should give importance to children's reluctance. Parents' decisions should never be imposed on the child. In fact, it is not that our parents want to impose anything bad on us. Every family wants their son or daughter to reach the pinnacle of success.
However, parents should be careful about what their child likes. The main task of the family is to help him move towards success by determining the place of his choice.
Thankfully to your point of view it is a very good thing to have the right people in the world.