Friendzone

All absolutely everyone in life has fallen at some point in this, the very ungrateful and damn Friendzone! You never know when and where, but one falls there and for certain people it is always easier to get out, while others are meant to live there for life. Of course always combine a number of factors that guide us here.

But how can we define friendzone? Well it's simple, if we separate the words, Friend and zone. This term refers to the relationship that can get to two people, where only remain as friends, this term is used when one of these wants to take the next step in the relationship and the other part does not want, it is said that he or She fell on the Friendzone. There are people who have a certain ease, sometimes to fall well and one pass to that area, while there are others that never enter and even have to choose, what factors influence this? I really do not know, but I handle some theories.

Theory
Of course, or these theories are subject to the point of view of a man, so I do not know to what extent it applies to females, but here we go:
Well when you get close to a girl two things happen, you're cute or you're pana. Of course, it's cute does not mean that we like it and that we like it is not synonymous with being cute, everything depends on each one. Usually you do not go or talk about me, with the idea of ​​having something with that person right away, let's put in context that you want something serious, it's not a joyful trigger. I think that one should never rush things, and know the person well, but neither can we give this thing a long time, because by the lived, the people do not wait for anybody.

The main factor is the lack of communication, say things, it will sound trillado, but it is so, many times to speak it is of no use, but to be with the doubt that if that person wants or not the same is even worse.
Usually, everything begins with a friendship, in the middle of that friendship we realize that that person can be something more or that we simply built something around that person, and in less than what a cock crows we are already in love Or we feel something for that person.
Of course also happens that we do not want to lose certain friendships and it is when everything gets entangled, because the mere fact of feeling something for someone and that will be enough so that everything that does in one way or another affects us. It is when you should make a barrier and try to continue to love that person, but a little more away, so as not to compromise the friendship.

How to leave the Friendzone?
There is no formula or a law that tells us this is done and everything will be honey on flakes, so let's start by being realistic, that depends on you as well as the other person, here you can not force someone to love you like you You want me to love you, people want as you can and you are born.
There is something that a friend and I call the stage of confusion, it is that moment in which you go out or talk to a girl, in which neither you nor she know they are, but you want something more. She has fun, follows the current and gives you signals, few, but you give them ... it is our job to read and act !! Above all, act and in the best way. If that moment passes and everything is clear, we are lost we fall in the area.

Sometimes the fear of losing the person by telling him what we feel is understandable, but the uncertainty or living waiting for someone who does not even know what you feel for her is even worse. So, I recommend, if you are in this situation, talk to your friends or someone you trust that you have in common with that person or a friend who advises you, it always works, and sooner or later you will have to leave or you will learn ... that despite Wanting a person so much does not mean that you should have something with her and that if you learn to see her with other eyes both can be happy. And in the opposite case, go for it or the, fight for what you want and build a future with that person who you think is your soul mate.

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