CONTROLLING ANGER
Greetings to my fellow steemian friends, hope you all are doing great and your day is going perfectly well. This contest titled: CONTROLLING ANGER, by @cotina got my attention, and I want to take part in it.
TAKE A SELFIE STIMULATING YOUR ANGRY FACE AND SHOW US |
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In day to day life, things happens to us which makes us angry, it's might be what we heard about ourselves from others, what people say to us directly in our face, what people do to us that hurt our feelings either accidentally or purposely, a disappointment or harassment, this things can get someone angry easily.
It's might be a little ease if the person that wrong us and make us angry is our friend, we might be angry for a while and then get back together but if it's a mere person, like, a stranger or a colleague from school or workplace, we might be so angry over whatever happens till we overreacted.
It's really necessary to control our anger almost all the time because whatever action we might decide to take at that moment will not solve the problem rather makes it worse. This is why we need to control our anger.
ARE YOU ONE OF THE PEOPLE WHO GET ANGRY EASILY |
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- Actually, I can't say am among those that get angry easily because I know what will happen if I like getting angry at little things people do to me. I don't really know how to fight or let me say I don't have strength to fight someone.
All this is because of the way I was brought up, when I was in primary school, my dad gave me a strong warning, that any day he received any complain from my teacher that I fight on school or I came back home with a turn uniform, he is going to beat the hell out of me.
I heard him but didn't really take it's serious until one day when I get involved in a fight at school and came back home,I was given the beating I never received before, since then, there no way you can wrong me that can get me easily angry.
WHAT SITUATION MAKES YOU LOSS YOUR CALM AND GET IN A BAD MOOD |
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There are things that makes me angry nowadays, like hearing a bad rumor about me when I don't do such, come on, you are spoiling my name for God sake, I can't take that, this can make me get so angry.
Moreover, when I have a secret it's might affect my emotions and to get relief, I might want to discuss it with a friend whom I trust, but when it's happens that this secret I discussed with so called trusted friends is now a news headline to others, this get me embarrassed and angry, at least friends are supposed to back each other not hurt them. 🤕
TELL US THE LAST REASON THAT MADE YOU ANGRY |
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I was being underated in a mist of people, it's all happens in my workplace, since am a barber and apprentice, some people coming to barb always stop me from cutting their hair although have pass such level, when this happens I don't usually get angry, but this one that got me angry was out of hand
The Man came with his family to barb, my boss took care of him and I decided to barb the children, I was so surprised when I heard the man saying "Drop that clipper and get out from that place, can you barb, Can you barb" ?
I was really ashamed in front of those customers and was really angry. I don't think I can forget that man's face even in my dream.
DO YOU THINK GETTING ANGRY IS A BAD OR NEGATIVE THING |
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Getting angry is not a bad thing, it's natural, but it's becomes bad when one always get angry over a little thing, it's become a negative and bad habit. If we likely get angry over everything we can overact at some point and do what we can regrets later, although it's natural to get angry, we can always control our anger to avoid overacting and show our level of maturity.
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BOTH PHOTOS ARE MINE 📸 |
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Hola amigo!
El enojo o la ira, son parte intrínseca de nuestra experiencia humana. Aunque a menudo las consideramos incómodas, también nos brindan valiosa información. El enojo puede ser un motor para el cambio, una señal de límites personales o una respuesta a la injusticia. Aprender a reconocer y canalizar estas emociones nos permite crecer y conectarnos más profundamente con nosotros mismos y los demás.
Mucho éxito en tu entrada
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Feliz y bendecido día amigo @jewel005, un placer saludarte
Concuerdo contigo amigo, muchas personas piensan que enojarse es malo y no es así, como bien dices tu, enojarse no es malo, es una reacción normal de nuestro cuerpo a una situación que se nos torna incomoda y que de alguna manera nos lastima, como dejar de sentir si somos seres humanos con sentimientos? es ilógico, pero lo que si esta mal, es que por todo nos enojemos, que todo nos cause rabia, que nada nos guste, eso si esta mal, ahí hay que sentarnos y revisarnos y de ser necesario buscar ayuda.
Has vivido situaciones que te han echo madurar y reflexionar, y bueno, eso es parte de la vida, de cada situación que vivimos aprendemos siempre algo, lo importante es segur adelante y que no sea en vano esas situaciones para no volver a cometer los mismos errores.
Yo pienso que a medida que vamos madurando vamos dándole importancia a todo aquello que vale la pena, y a desestimar lo que no es relevante en nuestras vidas, yo con los años he aprendido a tomar las cosas con más calma, tomo las cosas de quien viene, no hay que ser impulsivos esto nos puede jugar en contra.
Te deseo mucho éxito. Un abrazo. Suerte
Thanks ma'am, you are full with wisdom, as we are growing from one stage to another in life we are experiencing different situations which educate our brain making us to know when to be angry and when to be calm, if we are being hurt.
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Have a great day ma'am 🌺
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Anger makes someone look so sad and unpleasant. We shouldn't allow our anger to control us.
Es realmente molesto que hablen a las espaldas de uno , que digan los secretos que les has confiado es una falta de respeto a tu amistad , quiere decir que rompió tu confianza , Po ara que te ahorres esas molestias no cuentes tus secretos a personas que puedan contarlos después.
Que triste y molesto lo que te paso con ese cliente hay personas que no piensan el daño que pueden hacer con sus malos comentarios lo mejor es ignorarlos.