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RE: Why You Need to be Mindful of People You Let into Your Life
In time, I have noticed that some relationships last only for a certain cycle of your life. Sometimes you feel the need to move away from someone because that person is draining you with negativity or you maintain the relationship because it provides certain comfort. In my opinion, sometimes we keep certain negative relationships because we are still learning from them or because we fall into a certain pattern and are scared of being alone. So yeah, I agree that you must love yourself enough to get rid of the negative cycle of a relationship and move forward to welcome positive people in your life.
Well said. Leaving relationships which were in your life for many years may be challenging. We think that if we have maintained this relationship for let's say 10 years, it is forever. We can create lifetime connections, absolutely, but we also have to accept the fact that not everyone will be there forever. I have "lost" lots of friends simply because we grew into different people and our values have changed.