DOES FREQUENT CALL GUARANTEE TRUE LOVE?
Many times in the web of relationship, people find themselves doubting if their partners truly love them,they read meaning to every of their actions and try to compare the affection and care they receive to that of those they feel their relationship is booming.
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Today, I would specify on one of the areas where doubt often arise # phone calls.
Are you safe if your partner doesn't call often?
The inspiration to write on this topic came from the argument in a group I belong to,so I would make some references to chats from there.
According to my research, most introverts do not like making phone calls so truly,there are people that do not like making phone call but how do you differenciate the honest one from the dishonest?
There is a claim that it's impossible for someone that truly loves you to shy away from speaking to you daily, since one of the proven signs of true love is that their voice gives you butterfly and they want to share their feelings and day with you. A good percentage of people that don't call often blame it on busy schedule but then the day has a whopping 24hrs and they weren't busy in every seconds.
What do you do if your partner is found in this list
Yeah it's normal to get worried if your partner doesn't call often and I can't categorically tell if it's a sign of lack of interest because people are different but you can try these tips
- Pay attention to his actions.
- Find out if something went wrong between you two before the sudden attitude.
- Make him/her know how you feel about it.
- Do the calling for a while
- Take some steps back
If you put those acts up, I am positive there would be result to know where you stand but if aside calling he/she doesn't communicate too,it might be a red flag with the sign run!!!
Does frequent call mean that he is into you?
It's normal among some girls to chant on how caring their husband or boyfriend is ohh he calls me every other day,a day can't pass without us speaking, bla bla bla this is one of the reasons those that don't get frequent calls feel inferior.
How sure are you that he is calling with a clean heart?
From the illustrations we above about love and calls, it's true that calling a partner Is a display of affection but doesn't guarantee true love.
Are you one of those that don't like calling your partner? Tell us your reason, let's reason with you. Do you have an experience you will like to share? Come on in
Thanks for reading
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Hi Jeanie, You also need to understand that what your friend affirmed up there seems to be what I termed medicine after death. The fact that her ex. got married gave rise to her thinking she had been a side chick. Let me tell you a little about my past relationship. I met my ex. about 4 years ago, I developed such a feeling for her that I barely stay a day without calling her. The truth is no matter how busy one's partner is, when you truly love him or her, you won't take your chance for granted. Your heart will always be there even if your schedules are tight, you will create time to either put a call through or send a text. She didn't appreciate my call or text. I would send text at least once a day and she barely respond to my texts. Yet I didn't bother. I endured for a long period but she won't just understand my needs. Things turn crazy when I met a new lady who gives me attention, returns virtually any of my call she missed or rather she'll send text if she's out of call card. I feel fulfilled though I love my ex. to the call but I began channeling all my love to my new woman as she understands my needs. Now my ex. wants my attention, she calls very often than usual, would send me text but I will always ignore because that's not who she is. She's only missing out something..
So I will conclude it's not healthy if you boo or bae doesn't call or text most especially call is very important. It fosters communication and makes the hearts connect with each other.
I hope you would see from my point of view.
Thanks for sharing your story
And i buy into your view calling your partner is important and a sign of love but doesnt really guarantee it
Going by my introverted nature, as the world defines it, I'll give you a thumbs up because in truth, I rarely get excited when calls come in talk little about making them.
But, to keep relationship glowing, communication is essential. That's why it has to be learned.
Well, I'm no expert in this area but this is one reason I've heard countless times why certain relationships go down the drain.
Thanks for this awesome post.
I appreciate your contribution
Thanks
Constant calls could also be a sign of lust, I won't really term it as true love, although when you love some you will always want to hear from them regularly.
I appreciate your contribution
Calls are important but are not the hallmark of true love. Don't ask me what the hallmark is cos i really do not know. But its always better to keep communicating.
Thanks for sharing @jeaniepearl
When you find out please share
Thanks
I think I prefer short distance relationship
See as these ladies discussing guys matter. What do i know! Small boy like me. Sister, i want to be like you when i grow up 😀
Lol
Use yourself as example joor
Are you the gf caller or shunner
He is The shunner
Communication is a life line for relationship. However, there are other parameters.
Well said
Calls are important in a relationship especially when the parties involved are in different locations.. It makes the other feel like the lover is close but a situation where they are close and call often? It gets tiring I see it as a 'relationship abuse'/ call abuse... 😂
Lmao
I can imagine
Hummmm.... Well probably that's why i don't jave a GF now....
Broke up cause of lack of calls?
because he doesnt call
Let me quickly inform you that play boys call more often than real guys with true love. Call is important but once there is understanding between the two parties, call or no call they still love and care for each other.
Hmmmm
I see a lot of sense this
Thanks