GOOD INTENTIONS

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A lot of parents may have good intentions for their children, but a lot of times people raise their children in ways that causes more problems than they solve. A father might go to his 15-year-old son and say, "Well, son, it looks like you're almost becoming a man. I think it's time for you to have a beer with me. I'll show you how to be a real man." And then one day the boy grows to become an alcoholic, and his father says to him, "I don't want to ever see you around here again! What is wrong with you, Maxwell? You need to stop drinking. I'm taking you to an AA meeting."

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When children are very young, parents should listen to them and educate them about sex. But instead, a lot of parents treat their children like criminals for being sexual. Whether it's masturbation, watching pornographic images, or even have an interest in dating someone, a lot of parents become angry with their kids for doing any of those things. Parents give their children the impression that being sexual somehow makes you evil. And when it becomes nighttime, some of those children get to hear mommy and daddy have sex, and wonder if it's really evil.

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there are some fathers who talk with their sons about females, but their talks have more to do with criticism towards the female, and seeing the female person as nothing more than a sex object. With the exception of certain women who tell their sons to respect females, same as they want someone to respect their mother, there's not really anything in society that make a lot of men want to respect women.

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If a mother catches her son playing with a Barbie doll, she might get really offended and try to make it look wrong and tell him to go outside and play with the boys. She might say to him, "I'm not going to raise you to be no damn sissy! But she doesn't realize that she may be teaching him to hate women instead. When she teaches him to stay away from that Barbie doll and by being more abusive to him for such actions, then he may begin to see women as something evil, and nothing more than a source of pain and confusion.

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Parents should not enroll in the business of being unfair to their kids all in the name of raising them in a particular way but actually destroying them.