Understand that our words raise a child's self-esteem, but also our words can knock him down.

 

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Educate emotion and self-esteem, vaccinate against discrimination, promote solidarity, resolve conflicts in the classroom, filter stressful stimuli, job losses and frustrations. Are some of the techniques applicable in the classroom to insist on the education of the emotions of our students.

Praise alleviates the wounds of the soul, educates emotion and self-esteem. Praise is to encourage and improve positive characteristics. There are parents and teachers who never praise their children and students.

 

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Many young people say they did not ask to be born. Others discourage any problem. Others still believe that nothing works in their lives. But we are all winners All current difficulties are refreshments compared to the serious risks we face to be alive on the stage of existence.

 

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How to help a student or a child who failed, assaulted, had inadmissible reactions? One of the biggest secrets is to use the praise criticism technique. First, praise some characteristics of him. Praise stimulates pleasure and pleasure opens the windows of memory. Moments later, you can criticize him and take him to reflect on his lack.

 

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Criticizing without praising first hinders the intelligence, leads the young man to react instinctively, like a threatened animal. The most aggressive human being melts in the face of a compliment and, therefore, remains unarmed for help. Many murders could be avoided if, in the first minute of tension, the threatened person praises his attacker.

Anecdote: Once, a man of German origin whose grandparents suffered traumas from the war was a MEDICAL OFFICE. He was very aggressive. He says he killed anyone who crossed his path, including his children. In a consultation of the usual, the doctor who treated him said something he did not like and took out a weapon that was hidden and threatened the doctor. Do you know what the doctor did? He was not intimidated. I raise his eyes and praise him. I said the following: "How can such a smart man need a weapon to expose his ideas?" And he continued: "Do you know that you have a great intellectual capacity and that you can conquer any person through it?" The praise surprised him. His fury melted like ice in the midday sun. He started crying. From that moment, they say, that man had an excellent evolution in his treatment. He became a kind human being. If the doctor had not had that behavior, we would not be telling this story in a real way, with so much teaching. Vaccine against discrimination Experience praising your wife, your husband, your children, your students, your co-workers before criticizing them. There are always reasons to value. After praising them, make your criticism, but speak only once. It is not the repetition of critical words that generates the educational moment, but its privileged registration. If you use this technique for a few months, your social relationship will be totally different. You can conquer the most frigid and unbearable people.

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There are no problematic young people, only young people who are going through problems. Praise young people who are shy, obese, discriminated against, hyperactive, difficult, aggressive. Encourage those who others make fun of, those who feel diminished. Being an educator is being a promoter of self-esteem.

 

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Often students are seriously hurt. Do not allow any hypothesis that students call their colleagues "whale" or "elephant" because they are obese. Do not allow them to talk pejoratively about the physical defects and the skin color of others. These games are not naive. They produce serious conflicts that no longer vanish, they only re-publish.

 

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Teach young people, with words and about all attitudes, to love the human species. Above being Arabs, Jews, whites, blacks, rich and poor, we are a fascinating species. In the frames of our intelligence, we are more equal than we imagine. Praise life. Take the young to dream If you stop believing in life, there will be no future

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• https://disciplinapositivaespana.com/la-motivacion-y-la-critica-adecuada-crean-una-sana-autoestima/
• https://espanol.babycenter.com/l25010611/7-formas-de-levantarle-el-%C3%A1nimo-a-tu-ni%C3%B1o-fotos

 

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