HAPPY MARRIED LIFE
Confusion is part of a married life, it should be explained by mutual intimacy.
Confusion is a common condition of married life, it does not matter how much the couples are intimate to each other, yet they are different in their own right, their requirements, wishes, Previous experience and their views are different, in fact, the more intimate of the couple, the differences between them also arise. The differences should be resolved in a correct way so that the trust with the intimacy of the saints can increase, and not with a couple's relations, they should born with birth.
Avoid warning, Make the partner aware of both good and bad things, Don't resort the sex to persuade the matter, Avoid Personal Stigma.
10 ways to solve the Nuptial life
1)Keep The Issue Clear:
Explain the issue which is the reason for the dispute at the time of discussion, the reason that many times the mindset starts with, In fact, there is another issue in the root of that. The ambiguity of the issue not only destroys time in arguments, Rather there is a danger of more intimidation and intimacy in the future.
2)Better To Be Silence:
If one is angry, the other should remain silent, and when the anger of others is calm, only than should be discussed the issue.
3)Keep Faith:
Happiness or sadness, In any situation, have full faith in your partner. Seeing this belief of partner Where there will be a sense of respect towards you in your partner's mind, that the confidence of partner will be too, Which will form a strong basis for the married life.
4)Need To Be a Good Listener:
Let your partner complete his talk without any interference or obstruction, only after that, say the point. When telling the point, make it clear to the partner that thus does not make any kind of riot.
5)Try To Understand:
When the partner's talk is complete, let it make understand the things right, do not assess those things from the point of view,
for this reason if there are doubts about any of these things, then according to the point of view, explain as to the right understanding That was what it meant to say or something else.
6)Don't Wander From The Subject:
Apart from the issue on which the issue arises, the church will, not be able to resolve the issue by overthrowing the dead of past, and the talks will become endless logic and allegation will be counterproductive, Which will weaken the foundation of a married life. So, let the partner understand that this is not the right time for those issues, If it is stuck on it's stance, then it is more useful to highlight the talks(that to Postponement of negotiations are useful).
7)Don't Need To Keep Things In Mind:
Every thing related to a husband wife have to share with each other, it is a relationship in which, no part of the husband and wife's life should be not hidden from each other every aspect of the life should make the life partner aware.
8)Let Know About Aspirations:
To express the desires to the partner let Have the enough time and atmosphere. Never underestimate that self understand all its aspirations, because human nature is extremely complex, and every person has many drab desires, if it can reveal them or get it done, thus satisfaction will be the reason for the permanence of the couple.
9)Search An Options:
Find enough ideas and different options for the partner's and self-satisfaction, try to discuss a wide range of options, and make sure how to resolve this issues. don't try to make the point, don't make choose of the point or option, if both do not agree on any option, if the search and consideration of other options is necessary as long as the both are unanimous.
10)Don't keep ego:
Between husband wife believing his or her own mistake after the knuckle-nose or pique, should apologize to one another by forfeiting their own importance, also graceful apology should be give to each other.
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