Do Not Let Others Pressure You Be Comfortable

Is it true that being comfortable can make the world go away? Well, if you think about it for a moment most people would agree that it can. You feel comfortable just being yourself and the universe works around you. If you are really honest, you will admit that it is an inner state that has nothing to do with the outside world.


There is some truth to this belief. When you are comfortable, you tend to be more relaxed. More relaxed people are able to be in the flow of things easier. This also goes for when you are talking to other people. When you are not at ease, you tend to hold your tongue, or maybe even mumble.

In the outside world, being comfortable has so much more to do with the external aspects of your life. Do you find yourself getting nervous before an exam or showing up for work with a bad back? This has everything to do with how you are feeling about yourself. Most people who are nervous will tell you that they are insecure. And this shows up in the way they conduct themselves.

A good example of this would be someone who is scared of asking questions in school. Or how about someone who constantly knows the answers to the teacher's questions but never gets the chance to show them? Do these people suffer from a lack of self confidence? They probably do. And they could have avoided all of these problems by becoming more comfortable in their beliefs.

Does being comfortable come at a cost though? Does being comfortable mean that you have to say 'unpleasantly'? Do you find that you are forced into situations where you are uncomfortable? Do you ever question whether or not you are being comfortable? Do you ever wonder if what you are wearing or doing is uncomfortable? Do you ever get angry or frustrated because you were not comfortable?

The first thing that you have to remember is that comfort can be a choice. You can choose to be uncomfortable, and you can choose to be confident. Think about your most admired role model and the things that they are comfortable with. Act the same way. We often choose to be comfortable with people who treat us badly. But if you are able to show the world how comfortable you are with things that are not right, then that is something that people want to hear about.

Being comfortable means that you don't mind being watched. If you have the wrong idea about something, it is likely that you won't tell everyone until you have fully convinced yourself. Because of this, many people feel as though they are being watched all the time. So if you have something that you are uncomfortable with, and you are trying to act normal, other people will doubt your motives.

If you are in a situation where you think that people are watching, act normal. But don't let the world know that you are uncomfortable. Act like you are interested in the topic and then bring up what you are reading later. This will get people thinking of the subject again, which will help them to consider your point. And remember, this is a habit that are easy to learn and hard to break!

You can easily be comfortable with the wrong things. It seems strange, but there are lots of people who won't admit that they are wrong or have problems with changes. You can get into a strange state of mind where you are okay with whatever is going on, because you don't like it.

Be comfortable with yourself. Your happiness is up to you, and you should not let anyone else tell you what is right or wrong. You will become more comfortable as you reflect on what you are doing. When you are comfortable enough with yourself, you can start to be happy about things that other people might disapprove of.


Be comfortable with the way things are. While you do not like the way things are, do not allow yourself to be influenced by the opinions of others. They may not tell you that things are bad, but they will most certainly influence how you feel about them. In order to be happy, you need to take charge of your own actions.