Nagging in a Relationship
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I'm @ibraheem75
From Nigeria.
I would like to thank @ninapenda for organizing such a lovely contest titled nagging in a relationship. Let's get straight to the point below 👇
🔻How do you deal with nagging in a relationship?
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Nagging is one of the Major issues in a relationship today, all the gender nag in a relationship no matter how mature you can be or aged you are there must be something that would trigger you to nag, because we are all humans we mostly have unfinished talk or business to settle and that's what makes us to nag, I call it ranting though.
However, the only way I manage to handle or deal with nagging is by counting my words, I mind the way I talk or communicate with my partner, and I made sure issues are settle maturely without have to hurt each other.
And another thing is that I learn to say sorry where necessary so as to avoid nagging because nagging is a major issues to terminate every marriage or relationship, even though I know deep down I am not at fault but for the sake of peace I said sorry to let things be.
🔻Do you agree that nagging comes only from women and not from men? Or from both?
With due respect Nagging in my opinion and from my experiences I had with the kind of ladies I encountered I could easily say 95% of ladies Nag alot, surely it comes from the ladies while the rest of the 5% comes from the Men.
Although all gender nag but majority is the female, Thus we all are humans we have our own desires, how we want things to be done in our ways that leads to nagging.
🔻 Does nagging and complaining mean the same thing? Explain
Categorically Nagging and complaining actually means different things they might be similar but to some extent they have their differences.
Nagging refers to continually finding faults on someone or annoying someone. Repeatedly or nonstop while...
Complaining refers to an expressions of deep satisfaction over something or annoyed of, or feeling of resentment. You are not just okay with someone or something in particular,,, That's complaining.
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So they mean different things but similarly to some extent, it can however be used interchangeable.
🔻Do you think building a better communication skill in a relationship can help stop nagging?
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Yes building a good and smooth communication has a long way to go in helping to reduce or stopped nagging in a relationship,
Because my partner always nag a lot, that I don't call her, that's her major complaints or nagging,,, although sometimes I might think I am trying, I've improved in times of calling and texting but still to her is never enough, she kept asking for more efforts, "omoh e tire me sometimes ooo" .
But I have to gear up and keep trying harder to suit her, to ensure she never Nag again,, Although you need to fear those gender they never ger tire when it come to nagging but constant communication would help to save your marriage or relationship,or by saying sorry it will also go a long way as well.
Another thing is that communication and understanding is one of the major key to all relationships or successful marriages, both parties should know that they cannot do beyond their strength we are all humans,so the communication should be the duties of both partners involved.
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