The psychological impact of child development due to parental divorce
In a family of course not all things work well and smoothly, because over the course of life there are always some events that hamper harmony in a family. One of the most common situations in life is the occurrence of divorce cases within a family. And this problem is no longer an alien thing that happens in a family.
Divorce occurring in a family is not only detrimental to the divorced, in the sense of the word harming a husband and a wife. It may be that the divorced couple will remarry with another couple that matches each other's personal. But the effects of percerain have a huge psychological impact on their children.
Perhaps sometimes parents do not think about the effects of divorce, maybe they are only concerned with ego alone, the result is very bad for the psychological development of children whose parents divorced. Because the child still wants his parents together under any circumstances, either in difficult circumstances or in a happy state.
Because a child still wants to be raised and educated by a whole family who has a mother and father, because although sometimes a child is raised by a mother with affection and no less, but the psychological impact will be different from the child raised and educated by a child who has a mother and father. And vice versa, a child who was raised by a father with affection without any shortcomings, still need a mother figure in psychological development.
Sometimes the psychological effects of a child's development look very bad as the child often gets angry, so a dissident child, unable to control his emotions, always blames himself for divorce that happens to his parents. Then it could be a quiet child and less optimistic in socializing with peers and in other social environments.
Even worse, sometimes the child will fall into a life that can not be controlled again, so doing acts outside the prevailing norms. Such as violence that harm others, engage in drug cases and other activities, which undermines the development of the child in achieving noble ideals.
