- Never raise your voice for any
reason. Its a sign of disrespect. (Prov
15v1)
- Dont expose your husband's
weaknesses to your family and friends.
It will bounce back at you. You are
eachother's keeper. (Eph 5v12)
- Never use attitudes to communicate
to your husband, you never know how
your husband will interpret. Defensive
women don't have a happy home.
- Never compare to your husband to
other men, you have no idea what their
life is all about. If you attack his ego,
his love for you will diminish.
- Never ill treat your husband's
friends, just because, you dont like
them. The person who is supposed to
get rid of them, is your husband.
- Never forget that your husband
married you, not your maid or anyone
else. Do your duties.
- Never assign anyone to give
attention to your husband. People may
do everything else, but your husband is
your responsibility.
- Never blame your husband if he
comes home empty handed, rather,
encourage him.
(Deut 3v28)
- Never pretend to be sick, for the
purpose of denying your husband sex.
You must give it to him, how he wants
it. Sex is important to men. If you keep
denying him, its a matter of time, before
another woman takes over your duty.
No man can withstand sex starvation for
too long. Even the annointed ones.
- Never compare your husband to
your one time sex mate or your ex
lover. Your home may not recover from
it, if you do.
- Never shout at or challenge your
husband in public or in front of your
children.
- Never allow your friends to be too
close to your husband.
- Dont forget that husbands want
attention and good listeners. Never be
too busy for him. Good communication
is the bed rock of every marriage.
- Never base your love on material
things. Will you still submit to him, if
you earn more than him?
- Your parents or family members do
not have the final say in your marriage.
Do not bring in a third party, no matter
what.
- Dont be too judgemental on your
husband. No one wants a naggin
wow... nice advice