How to Make Things Happen ...

But before I tell you more about it, let me tell you about the two types of people who come running into me throughout life ... and I'm sure if you think about it, you will remember many people in your life that are so ...
I run into people who always ask:
"Why is it that ... (things are a certain way) ...?"
In some cases, I find the same people after 20 years and they are still asking the same questions!
As if their minds were stuck at the same point ... like a frozen computer and needing a reboot ...
I have also come across a different kind of people ...
Those who continually ask questions like
"How can I ... (make that cool business, have that cool thing, etc.)?
And then I meet with them a year or maybe even a few months later, and they've got what they had asked!
And now they are asking for bigger and better things.
Is this a coincidence ??
Or maybe the way you ask questions has a huge impact on your life ...
The wrong question can leave people paralyzed, while the right questions propel them to higher and higher levels of success and fulfillment.
Asking "why" is great if you want to be a philosopher.
It's great to be a philosopher, if your goal is actually this.
But if you want things done, if you want "results" if you want to make things happen, you need a different question ..
To operate major changes in your life to achieve miracles and to express their desire, the right way to ask is to ask "How" ...
No "Why things are as they are?" But "How can I change things for the better ...?"
You can start small, "How can I change ... (that little thing in my life) ...?"
As you are getting the hang of, start with the big issues ..
Do you remember about the two types of person about whom I told you? ... In real life, there is a bit of both in each of us ...
When we are tired and frustrated when we resigned and throw in the towel, that's where the "whys" begin ...
Have you noticed that when someone gets frustrated with someone else, the first question that arises is unconsciously "Why are you like this?" Or "Why are you acting like this?"
When we are ready to make changes and manifest great things, we begin to ask ourselves "How".
The questions "How to" brake the vicious cycle of negative thoughts. Thus, immediately your mind chooses a new path ...
A path that leads to solutions ...
I know some people may doubt this method because it is too simple ..
But its power is just in its simplicity.
Then during the day, when you are thinking about something, try to modify any thought to a question "How" ...
You will be amazed at the results after a while ...
Now, how long will it take for you to find the answers?
Or how you can speed up the answers to your questions?
A toast to your happiness, thanks for reading!
How - this is an excellent idea.
My own observation was that 'Why' is not a question - it is a statement of weakness.
I upvote U