Growing up is a risky game

We all learned early to seek safety. And this means collecting experiences that make us feel comfortable and nourished physically and emotionally.

Gradually, however, life will bring circumstances that we take this state so nice and require us to know the other side of the coin. We are then challenged to face the pain and suffering that can be caused by issues related to the material aspect of life, or emotional experiences such as loss and rejection.

However great resistance to accept the frustration of our desires, it is through these challenges and obstacles, we achieved growth in both emotional and spiritual.

The changes that these situations require us to hold internally are extremely valuable. Accept uncertainty, the unexpected, the unknown, as an essential part of the evolutionary journey, it is an essential requirement to reach maturity.

After the initial shocks, gradually we learn to relax and navigate the river of life with a confidence that only time and persistence are able to build.

Look for paths not yet trodden and browse seas not yet browsed, because this is the way of life.

When changes begin to occur, people get scared.

So sometimes they cling to miseries, because they seem familiar.

People have to lose what they know. You have to lose what is already in their hands, in exchange for something that is not yet.

In real life there is no security, no promises, no guarantees, except the certainty of death. This is the beauty of life, and that's why there is so much emotion.