If a guy you consider as just a friend approaches you for marriage what will be your answer ?

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It actually depends if the lady involved also likes the guy. It is a matter of choice and decision. The lady may decide to say "NO" for the proposal forwarded by the guy and this doesn't means the friendship will come to an end. The lady may also decide to say "YES" to the guy's proposal as this affirms that they are both in love with each other. We can all see that it is just a matter of the lady's choice.

As for me, I will go for a "YES" if I were to be the lady and also provided the guy possesses some little requirement or qualities that I love. I don't see anything bad in marrying your male friend. It is even an act I wouldn't love to prescribe to ladies whenever they considering getting married. Your male friend already knew so much about you including what makes you happy, sad, angry and many other factors that can affect your emotions. Similarly, you might have known some little things about him because you both spend time together as friends.

A successful relationship invokes the husband and wife acting has best friends and this helps in the development of the marriage. The fact is that most people who ended up marrying today started as friends because it's not really that possible for you to just marry someone from nowhere whom you don't even know much about except for some arranged marriages. You will have to spend some time together with the new guy(knowing more about him) and check if your really like him through a process known as "Dating". If it were to be your male friend, there won't be much stress or time wastage because there are already many or few things you knew about him since you both spend time together as friends.

Also, from the way the question was asked, I think the male friend is madly in love with the lady for him to offer her such a great proposal with a brave move. It actually depends if you really like him. If you also like him, you can go ahead with the relationship and ignore the friendship part because it adds more spice and sugar which helps to develop the taste of the relationship.

In conclusion, it actually depends on what you want. If you really like him back, there is no problem in marring your friend because a good husband and wife are usually more than best or intimate inseparable friends.

Thanks for reading and I hope this helps.