Why Worry!?

in #steemit8 years ago

I think that It is in our human DNA to be worried about everything, even if things are going well. Our brain has to worry about anything whether important or not.

"If you can do something about it, then do it and dont worry. If you cant do something about it, then why worry."

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The most of the choices we make will not benefit us immediately. If we save money now, we will have it for retirement later. In our modern society rewards are delayed until some point in the future. The same way we worry about problems of the future. Will we have enough money to pay the rent next month! Will we repair our broken relationships! Problems can rarely be solved right now in the present moment. So why worry!

There is no guarantee that working hard will get us the promotion or going on a dating site will bring us the perfect partner. We are surrounded by uncertainty all the time and fear of the future, the unknown. We worry about what will happen to us, to our families, to our business, to our cars etc. All that prevent us of being happy in the present. Wasting our energy over things that have already happened or haven’t happened yet.

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We shouldnt worry about not being able to full fill the expectations others have of us. We shouldnt worry that if we voice our opinions, we will be labelled and judged. We are constantly trying to be secure and safe and therefore we are anxious all time about the next moment, about tomorrow or about a month.

We need to be happy and optimistic. Whatever happened, was for the good; whatever is happening, is for the good and whatever will happen, will be for the good. We shouldnt have any regrets for the past and we dont need to worry about the future.

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Is that cat worried? they only sleep and eat the whole day :b

I have the feeling it is going to get vaccinated!

Hhhh I think cats worry about food like human worry about money lol

Hopefully we made money that easy xD

I also think it is in our human DNA :) We know it is not good but we still do it

It is not even good for our health :( I am teaching myself to not worry.

yea it's like we always have to remember ourselves. I do the same

Very nice post. I live by that philosophy too. Everything happens for a reason, I mean every single thing in this life. And you really get to know that when you consciously and consistently study your life for a while. So basically there’s nothing to worry about because everything, including negative things happens for a good reason. When you have a challenge you focus on the solution not worry.

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