Actually reading a book titled "Relationship FAQ'S" by Dr. Gloria Essien, although not through with the words but here are some lessons I got while reading:-

• God still speaks but the only access to God is guaranteed by living a righteous life.
• When asking for a husband ask God for a vessel unto honour he alone owns us so he knows which man is a vessel unto honour and a vessel unto dishonor.
• No matter how good a man is, will you be proud if your children calls him daddy, that means his character should be in check. Don't be in a Rush.
• When you feel you are actually missing a whole lot because you are not having sex all around like your peers, well the good news is yes you are missing a lot, and here is what you are missing:- Sexually transmitted disease (STD's), heartbreaks, disappointments, shocks, etc and because the truth is Virginity is the marriage bed. Heb 13:4
• Proverbs 6:3 says:-

3.Whoever commits adultery with a woman lacks understanding, he who does so destroys his own soul. Wounds and dishonor will he get.

To avoid the above happenings them stay chaste.

• The bible only expects a husband to love his wife, so you do not expect a boyfriend to love you as a husband because it was not so from the beginning. Ephesians 5:25
• In other not to attract bad, irrelevant, unserious, unkempt men to yourself please dress well as a young single lady. Do not let your dressing attract irrelevant battles to you. You don't have to dress nude to look hot, remember men are moved by sight.
• illicit sex slows a man down, rewinds his brain ams erodes his respect and regard for your person and brings to a halt his earlier plans. This is what keeps many women single because of indulging in one form of sexual act or the other. No matter how bad or ungodly a man is , he needs a tear rubber woman for a wife. He goes to where he can find peace of mind. So if you have already sold your body to him then be sure he will trade you for another woman.

Note:- If you are man reading this, you can exclude where the feminine is mentioned and include the masculine, its will go a long way to help.

I will stop here for today and continue some other day but before I stop I pray for grace for all the singles out there that our bodies will be a place where God can dwell. And I pray we will be vessels unto honour and not dishonor.

I remain

glotokens.