Why i love who i do.

Why I love who I love
Why did I chose to wrote about this is beyond me though. But like most of my posts, the direction and flows come as I put pen to paper or hand on my keyboard and ibpray that happens to this. Why did I fall in love with who am in love with?

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Have you ever taken a deep look at your love situation to determine why you are where you are? With who you are with? Probably not but I decided to maybe look at what would have kept me.

Someone once said that love is more that what we think say or feel, like the universe contributes it qouta, like an invisible hand. But am sure there are some basic ingredients that seem to catch and hold anyone, even the smartest of them all. For me as man, there are a lot of things that has been said about what men need, and I can agree more.
Respect that is almost top of the chat if not top, every man needs that after breath of course, but we literally live fore it, you think am over stating the fact? Remember that time you said something disrespectful to him? Or about his job or worst case his parents of family. Even when you thought it was a joke, he took and exception of it? That's what's up, we love respect and if a girl can give a girl that then am sure u got him interested.

So it is pretty much easy for me to be hooked if am respected and asides that I love some level of Independence from her ends, maybe not really financially as you might think, emotional independence, like she can be emotionally stable for some time with or without me, I believe with the nature of the job I intend to go into or am into, I will travel a lot and if she can't hold her own when am gone then...

Live without each other for each other that is confusing right? But look at it this way, if I love you then I should protect your interest and you mine not withstanding where we are at the moment, together or not.