IS EITHER ME OR WEED (Marijuana)
A close friend of mine decides to share a little about the misunderstanding going on between him and his girlfriend. That she threaten to quit the relationship if he don’t quit weed (Marijuana) smoking, locally called (wee-wee). I was shocked on hearing that but on a second thought, I wandered what pushed her to take such decision. What do you have to say, Gimba He asked me?
On a clear reasons on the benefits you said you drives from weed smoking, I don’t see anything wrong with you smoking weed. I thinks she is just being unreasonable and selfish. Because any lady who cannot tolerate her guy in any circumstances, has no love or future towards the relationship. Such ladies are only there for their selfish reasons with hunger of being superior and always having low knowledge and reasoning I responded.
Come to think of it, I continued if this lady can threaten you on smoking, she can do that on your friends as time goes on. Choosing who and who you hang out with. I believe relationship is meant to be enjoyed, understanding, and being patient with each other, you don’t force someone into your life by giving them ultimatum. Threatening is only a proof of trying to be superior.
Trying to advise him more was even getting me angry, please steemians was I wrong on what I was reasoning to him?
This is my take on the situation at hand. I am against Drugs but a woman shouldn't decide for him what to do in life. I will like to hear your view on this subject matter.
Thanks for reading steemians. Feel free to upvote and resteem.
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To me anyone who tries to say "me or ...." you should just walk away from. The people you(your friend) want in your life are going to try and help you by THEM doing things ... the people you want to kick the F out of your life will try to help you by telling YOU to do things ... these people suck lol.
To me the classic line of the Controller is "I'm just trying to improve your quality of life" this is a lie and a trap. They aren't actually trying to make your life better, they are trying to make their life better and externalizing their problems onto you. They won't be able to "fix" it because the problem isn't actually the type of plant your buddy chooses to put in his body, trust me if your buddy cut out weed that girl would just find another "problem" fast. It's easy to see if you realize marijuana is a holy herb in some cultures and a drug in others this isn't some terrible drug destroying your friends life, it's not a drug problem. That girl is trying to "stand above" her man and give out orders, giving out orders is a shit way of dealing with other human beings, man or woman, but it's so common most of us just think its ok. You don't want a relationship like the military regardless of who's the general. You want a partnership not a boss.
It nice hearing your opinion
Great ur artical , good luck 👍
Thanks friend