False evidence appearing real

You are not afraid of the dark; you are scared of whats in it.
You are not afraid of heights ; you are afraid of falling.
You are not afraid of people around you , you are afraid of rejection.
You are not afraid of loving, you are afraid of not being loved back.
You are not afraid to try again , you are afraid of getting hurt for the same reason.

Love is what we are born with; fear is what we learn.

By human developement.. I learned it during my study of human developement.