How to deal with stress and learn from committed lobster love --- love for life and forever!!

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A lobster is a soft mushy animal… I love lobsters a lot.

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Don’t get me wrong I am a true vegan. And Hey, non-vegans don’t get tempted and release your saliva :)..

There’s a lot more to learn from lobsters than eating them....

I often look up to the animal kingdom for a perfect metaphor to learn life’s lessons and touching examples of selfless love (e.g., mother bird is always possessive to protect her little ones or the loyal dog that does battle with any lethal canines intent upon harming their small ones.)

Now there is this statement about lobsters that they make love forever!!! Those who are really romantic can relate….

Most ordinarily it appears as "You're my lobster!" when it comes to affirmations among the individuals who stand firm in their convictions, that they have in fact discovered their perfect partners.

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Also from the picture above, Lobster theming of this nature has showed up as wedding cake toppers, T-shirts, rich soft toys, toss pads, and has even been utilized as the wedding topic by different couples.

And most certainly, there have been various just-marrieds who have had their wedding rings engraved with the expression "You're my lobster."

Unfortunately (well, in any event for those who've been articulating dewy-peered toward and seriously to their best beloveds "You're my lobster"), there's literally nothing to the saying about lobsters matching off and being reliable to each other for the span of their lives. and this statement about lobsters making a long term commitment to one another (monogamous satatus)which is missing in humans ,so these are real insoirations us in matters of heart and commitment even though they look hard shells and with menacing claws those arthropods best complement are epitome of romantic loyalty well worth emulating.
One more interesting thing about lobsters is that it lives inside a rigid shell .That rigid shell does not expand.

Well how can a lobster grow? As the lobster grows the shell becomes very confining. The lobsters feel itself under pressure and uncomfortable. It goes under a rock formation to protect itself from predatory fish. It then casts off the shell, and produces a new one, eventually that shell becomes very uncomfortable as it grows right under the rocks and the lobster repeats this numerous times.

The stimulus for the lobster to be able to grow is that it feels uncomfortable. So I think that we have to realize that times of stress are also times that are signals for growth and if we use adversity properly, we can grow through adversity.

The lobster must shed, with a specific end-goal to develop, which implies at different focuses in their lives they should abandon their old exoskeletons at that point. They then exist for a period, in a profoundly helpless state until the point that their new shells frame and solidify.

This definitely proves that lobsters also show us how to deal with stress.

One hypothesis about the inception of the "lobsters love is forever" absurdity, places the TV sit-com, Friends, as its wellspring. In one important scene ("The One with the Prom Video," unique air date 1 February 1996), Phoebe opines in this manner about the evidently star-crossed and destined sentiment amongst Rachel and Ross.

there’s something contradictorily charming about claw-waving, hard-shelled, aggressive creatures actually turning out to be epitome of unwavering spousal devotion. “Forget about appearances,” says such a belief. “Even the fiercest of the fierce are capable of great love, the depths of which we humans can only aspire to.”

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