You Have To Stop Blaming Me For Everything
"Don't tell me you don't blame me for everything that's happened to your teeth?" why do you have to blame when you are the one holding me and using me to stroke your teeth. says your toothbrush.
So many of us are used to blaming everything and anything for whichever condition we find ourselves. I am sure a lot of us do this a lot while some people even go to the extent of complaining alongside blaming.
People love to blame others for their predicaments and mistakes, from waking up late to taking breakfast late, getting to office late, failing in tasks, You blam your boss for stressing you in office, and so on.
Now let me ask you some question before you blame me:
Who forced you to eat junk that led to obesity
Who asked you to say yes to the proposal, you had the option to pick the opposite.
Who asked you to honour the employment letter? I'm very certain I wasn't
Did I ask you to trust that fellow so much that you got cheated? You personally didn't trust your intuition for reasons best known to you.
You bought it yourself because you liked it and wanted it badly, did I ask you to buy it?
When you saw it coming, you didn't take care of it immediately, no one asked you not to.
Do not blame me for not coming to your aid, you didn't call me. You told me you can do it alone.
So many of us just enjoy putting blames on people so we can feel relief and good that we are not at fault, it is all yours. A major attribute of successful people is not blaming others for their actions. They take full responsibility for their actions.
You need to start to taking full responsibility for all your actions.
REGARDS FROM @gbenga
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Those that play blame games hardly make any progress. Some will rather blame 'Adam and Eve' than take responsibility for their misfortunes
This post actually got me laughing out loud. Na you Waka come yourself, them no send you come, as my Lagos friends use to say it. So if anything happens afterwards your decision, take responsibility for it.
Nice one bro.
@bob-elr
Taking responsibility is a good sign of growth, not to but blame on someone else
Very true. There's no one to blame for the things that we do but ourselves. We might be influenced by someone else but ultimately the final decision rests on us.
Yes wise words.
Thanks for this motivational post @gbenga
The major reason why people put blames on other person is the fear of taken up responsibilities. They never want to be accused of been responsible of what really happen to them, they thereby looking for whom to shift the blame on. Whereas nobody is forcing them to take some of the decisions they are taken.
I love your insight about this:
Thanks once again for this tonic.
Regards @maintain4real-eu
Blaming someone is easier than excepting you brought some things unto yourself. So between the hard way and easy way, the easy way always wins.
As one of the reverend fathers I know usually says
Blame! Humanity's biggest enemy. We get caught in the act once in a while
Blame! Humanity's biggest enemy. We get caught in the act once in a while
you are very correct boss, we like to lay blames on everything and on everyone around us when we are even at fault on most occasions.
The first thing is to accept that you are at fault and then you allow the change process to take its effect. Thank you.