SELF-CONFIDENT PEOPLE

Hello dear friends, I hope you are very well and that you have had an excellent week. Today I want to talk to you about SECURITY IN SELF, an interesting topic and sometimes not having this quality we can not move forward in our projects and goals.

Having confidence in what we do and who we are should be something that we should nurture every day, in my experience sometimes I have lacked the belief that I can achieve certain things and sometimes that makes us lose great opportunities.

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A very important characteristic of these people is that they know who they are, they know themselves and know what they are capable of and what they are not, they know their defects and weaknesses, they know that the competition is not with someone outside is with ourselves, we must be better every day but for us, not to prove anything to anyone.

They know how to accept that things do not come by themselves, we have to work on it and also do not despair because the goal comes from one day to another, they know that everything takes time. They have the confidence to know that in spite of everything they are going to achieve it.

They do not allow anything to distract them, they focus on what they want to achieve and do not let their negative thoughts or anxieties dominate them, it is human to feel nervous and think about possible scenarios, but this type of person knows how to control their mind. And that is the important thing, they have EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE.

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They do not allow themselves to put limits on their life, they feel they are capable of reaching and achieving anything. They are risk takers, who are not limited by anything and believe in their abilities. Sometimes we let fear consume us and prevent us from growing and getting out of that comfort zone, but security allows us to get out of that place where nothing grows.

They do not let others control their lives, and I am referring to people or their fears and emotions, their thoughts, in short, they do not let anything stop them. Certainly when we are adults we should theoretically take control of our lives and be responsible for everything we do and say, but it is not always like that. That is why there are many people lost, without knowing where they are going or have a north in their lives. Something very sad.

They believe in their originality, that is, they do not live comparing themselves with anyone, they do not have time for that, they always look for their best version and not to be copies of someone else. We can have teachers or people who guide us to be better people but in the end each person is unique, envy is useless, it only makes you unhappy.

Learning to say NO and not to feel compromises with anyone is important, sometimes we think that by saying no we can hurt someone and therefore we put others above our welfare, but we must always think of ourselves first. Saying no can save us from many bad moments.

For these people there is NO FAILURE, simply if you make a mistake you can start over and learn from that experience. A failure is not synonymous with a fall, on the contrary, we must fight harder, learn, see where we went wrong and how we can do better this time. So if you fell down, get back up and start again! :)

Thank you for reading my publication.!!