Many many congratulation my dear friend @crypto.piotr. You both look amazing together. Even after all this issues you guys made it which is not small thing - I am aware about situation there regarding government officials & you had to move to another place. But the most important thing is you guys are together and which is enough to survive any condition. I wish you guys life with full of happiness. May every day of your life be filled with love, sympathy, and compassion! May the foundation of your relationship always be as solid as a rock. God bless you both.

What qualities do you guys think matters the most in the marriage if you’re a man? Im betting on few:

being open minded,
being a good listener,
being patient

I think you mentioned important thing already. I think trust and honesty between two is very important - as you guys survived this much there is no doubt that there is lake of any of this between you. Other than this all things are optional..

Once again Congratulations my friend.
Have a great married life :)