Friends

Most of my friends-acquaintances have such a distinctive feature - when they just parted with someone, they are very actively looking for my company. They are called to walk, drink, hang out, go to a club or to a disco (even if she did not give up to me), talk about their adversity and, in general, everything in a row. And then there comes a time when they finally find these very serious relationships again or they happen to have a comeback - and everything, you can say goodbye to a person for a period of N months to N years. They begin to cancel the meetings, or come for 10 minutes, and then they call the darling / beloved, and it's time for them to leave. I understand everything, it's very cool to be with someone and the first moments of falling in love, but sooner or later the relationship will end, and to whom they will run to cry and again to drag around everywhere for themselves? Naturally, to old friends, on whom they had recently placed a huge bolt with a left-hand thread. For some time now, I began to look at this cycle with a great deal of skepticism and indifference, and all these relationships are no longer as interesting to me as before, but an unpleasant sediment still remains. I have always managed to build relationships with people and manage everywhere, without neglecting them, even if the permanent relationship looms on the horizon. Because relationships are relationships, but when something goes wrong in them - it's friends that will wipe your tears, solder them at your own expense, play with you at Xbox at four o'clock in the morning, let them live for themselves or take them to Paris for a weekend , where they will joke terribly cynical jokes, forcing you to forget about another vital misfortune. And although now I'm developing in such a way that I'm almost always very busy, but still I do not forget about my friends, and they all remain a part of my life. And if I once have serious relations, the most important condition will be the opportunity to freely communicate with friends as much as I want, arrange night gatherings with them, go to clubs and travel. If my partner does not agree with this, let him go where he wants. I need a lot of space for life, and this is absolutely a categorical demand, from which I will never give up. No concessions and compromises. Because you can not reduce your whole life to a relationship, no matter how much you do not want it when things go well.

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