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RE: Who do you see in the mirror? Ulog 41
I agree - i don't like it when people embrace themselves when they've given up and choose a lazy lifestyle. I know tht there are things we can't change - so.... we should embrace that.
but when there are ways to be healthy... we SHOULD strive for that - i totaly agree with you!
I was thinking - it would be a lot easier for me to enjoy my reflection more - if i was more focused on being healthy. (trying to now!!!!)
I am so surprised how many men have replied to this so far! more men than women - interesting results :)
my experience says that men are more honest that women and friendships between men last longer that the female one, ofc i will that one more time, it's based on my experience it's not a fact or something absolute.
I think the reason more men reply is because more men apply and follow that logic because in a way they can't do otherwise. Let me give you an example: most women wear tons of make up, fake eyelids, shoes to look taller,fake hair,fake hair and some of them have done plastic surgery in their nose-lips-boobs, so how can they say to you "love yourself for what you are" :P that would be the utmost hypocrisy! :P
interesting! LOL well - you're right about some of that... but, I think that a lot of women would really like to NOT have those conditions applied to them. However, in the office, in the club, in the stores - who are the women that get the attention? The ones that look fake.
so.... it's difficult to compete with them unless you're really confident yourself.
also - for the friendships - i don't know, I can't say. I have long friendships with men and women :)
the majority of men that those women will attract will be of the same mindset. Also the those women tend to have an attitude so even if they gain the attention whee somebody goes and talk to them he will understand :P
Instead those that are their usual self and are kind when somebody goes and talk to them will have more success rate!
Also i should mention that many times me, my friends or even other men that we have no idea who they are may look those women you said above but our reaction will be "ahh another one, where are the real women!" It's like those stupid trends that come from time to time!
Bottom line try to be healthy, embrace what you can't change and be kind towards everyone. I don't know the outcome but it's certain that no man will say some bad for you and you gonna obtain at the very least new friends!
I really love your comments!!!!!!!! I think so many women will love them too :) Thank you for bringing such insight (and from a male perspective too!!!!) to this post! :)
oh and by the way - the women that are in the post - that were telling me to love myself for who i am....
they are not filled with fake ;) they are genuine and beautiful on the inside AND the outside
just wanted you to know that hehehehe
sent me their facebooks or instagram and i can tell you right away :P otherwise i can't have an opinion :P
Hahahahaahaha they are on steemit (better than Facebook or Instagram lolol) and I've seen them so you'll just have to take my word for it! Lolololol
in that case i take your word!