RELATIONSHIP 101-SEXUAL PURITY
The battle for sexual purity can be long and hard. Some overcome easily, while others take a long road. Yet in our humanity, sexual purity can be a life long battle.
In the church, the elects want to pull you down. On the streets, the stranger seeks between your legs. In the office, your boss wants a piece of you. At home, your cousins won't allow you to sleep.
Sexual purity is not a single's dilemma. Marriage doesn't solve its mystery. If marriage was the solution, there won't be something called Adultery. The wedding ring does not prevent marital unfaithfulness and disasters.
Nevertheless, sexual purity is still possible. You may not like to hear this, but as long as something inside of you demands that your partner be faithful to you, then you know that sexual purity is still possible.
I have always said this and I'd say it again: "If sexual purity is not possible, then let's stop sweating ourselves.... Just walk up to the next person you see, and demand for sex. Get sex whenever you want, WHEREVER you want. Feel no shame. Give no apology, whether to God or your conscience. Just get up, clean your mouth. Accept no rewards. Deploy no seductions. "
But if faithfulness and purity is possible, in spite of all who seduced you, in spite of how many times you tried and failed, then listen to me.... DON'T GIVE UP!