Fear

in #fear10 years ago

Each of us has fears, fear accompanies us from birth to old age. We are always afraid of something, and do not allow these fears to feel free. A crisis - we are afraid of losing their jobs and money. Conflict with family- scared to stay alone forever.

Consider some fears:

The fear to tell the truth
It is believed that lying is bad. Some parents cruelly punish children for lying, but at this quietly lie to yourself. The chief to explain being late to work, to the doctor to get sick leave,and so on.. . If we abandon the conviction, it becomes clear that lies, in many cases, is not a sin, but a way to get what you want or avoid the unpleasant.

When we lie, we for some reason are afraid to tell about something directly or to ask about something openly. If you behave naturally and to react naturally to life situations, then need for a lie will be gone by itself.

Fear of loneliness
The more we are immersed in themselves and move away from people, the more we condemn ourselves to isolation. This is a very common form of fear that causes us to sometimes communicate with people who are extremely unpleasant.
It is understood that sometimes a person needs to be alone and relax from the hectic life. But if loneliness is long, the person begins to embrace the fear that he was no one in this world is not necessary. Each one of us - a social being, and we all want to be respected, valued and loved, to feel full members of society.

Fear of poverty
This is one of the most destructive fears, which always will haunt humanity. Fear of poverty often prevents people to create wealth and wealth. Man, who constantly experiences the fear of poverty, unable to move forward to success, and has no power to change their lives for the better.

Fear of death

This is the most powerful and natural fear of humans. That he did not become a phobia really need to see the situation and really assess the danger arising from the event.

Fear of change
Each of us knows that there is nothing eternal in the world, sooner or later change. And we all, without exception, are afraid of change, because every change threatens us with the unknown. Very often, people take all sorts of innovations with great caution, because they see this as a danger and a threat. You never know what will change, what it can harm us, and most importantly, we do not know how to protect themselves from impending obscurity.

Fear of dependence
Living in a society, we are dependent on its laws, attitudes, traditions. The more we want to be free from society, the more aware that it is impossible. We depend on people, situations, environment, different circumstances. We constantly live under the fear that you must go to everyone, and if you do not want us, then begins a struggle within yourself.

Often people tend to excessive perfectionism, and yet the desire for an ideal often prevents budge and begin at least something to do. So remember that the success - it is first and foremost a great work, perseverance and the ability to fall and get up again as many times as required. Give yourself the right to error.

"Rate your fear of how he reasoned. If it is really reasonable, better listen to him, because he is your defensive reaction, which can save you from trouble. If it is not reasonable and worst-case scenario does not seem so terrible, then proceed forward"

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