Red Flags In Courtship Part 2

Hello Fellow Steemians, hope we are all waxing strong. I have not been posting for a while now but i am back with hot and interesting gists. In our today's chichat, i am responding to the request from my previous post whereby alot of you asked me to post about red flags in courtship that concerns women. Yes, i am here to serve it chilled lol.

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From the start of time, we learned from the Holy Bible that a woman was created from a man's rib to seve as a companion through his life. Women have grown to know men as superior to them as per societal norms and that tradition has continued till today and might continue with the future generations.

When we talk about courtship it is a one step ahead thing from a relationship and it invloves a man and a woman who have decided to take their relationship to another level ( marriage). With these, there are things that when you see in a woman while in courtship it is a red flag.

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Though there is no perfect woman, if while in courtship with a woman and she still keeps intouch with her ex-boyfriend, it is a thing to look into. When a lady cannot do without talking to her ex boyfriend while in courtship with you, that might mean she still has feelings for him and will likely go back to him at the least misunderstanding you people have.

Secondly, if your woman doesn't appreciate your efforts in her life or things you are into and instead criticizes you all the time it is a red flag. A woman that is meant for you will appreciate every effort you put into the relationship or to make her better.

Thirdly, if your woman does not encourage you to invest your money into something profitable but rather encourages extravagant life it is a red flag. A woman that is truly into you will push you to do great things with your money and not just spend on things that make no sense. She will be supportive.

Fourthly, if your woman does not respect you while in courtship it is a red flag. If she mocks at you, insults you and does not take anything you say on a serious note then it is not a good sign.

Moreover, a woman that does not respect your parents and siblings is a red flag. Added to this, interaction needs to flow between her and your family except otherwise. If these things are absent, then it is a red flag.

Furthermore, a woman that flirts with other men while in courtship is a huge red flag. There is no guarantee she will stop in marriage. This should be looked into by the man.

Morelaso, a woman that does not admit she can be wrong or does not know how to do something is a red flag in courtship. No one is perfect and learning is a process that never ends.

Lastly, a dirty woman is a red flag in courtship, if she is unkept and doesn't clean her environment, my brother straighten her if you can unless you enjoy a home and someone that is always dirty.

In conclusion, courtship is the last stage of a relationship into marriage and it is the most delicate of all. With this, caution needs to be taken; Always be open to your partner because no one is perfect. Some people just need to be told their flaws and they will change for good.

Much love from my end.