Achieving something in life
Minor mistakes in the best way to be loved may be the cause of stumbling and falling. At least the big bugs are the person's fearful dream of devastating effects.
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We all want to achieve something in life, to be liked by others and to be approved. All our efforts, consciously or unconsciously, are in this direction. This request is in our nature. As long as it is at the dose, it has benefits to the person.
But if the person is obsessed with them and enters such an expectation from everyone, then the color of the work changes. If the person wants to be approved and loved by everyone without exception, he believes that the only way for this is to make mistakes and not to make mistakes.
He so conditioned not to make mistakes that he made clumsiness, small mistakes, even the slightest buzzing of my tongue, I'm infamous, everyone will laugh, mock, such as to make you feel at the bottom of the ground.
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These people often do not give themselves the right to make mistakes, but when they make mistakes, they are the perfectionists who criticize them most severely.
As the fears of falling out are at an extreme level, they never give them flexibility. They expect that in real life, it is not possible to have everything at all, and expect the perfect conditions to do their jobs, tasks and achieve something. They act with this logic.
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