YOUR LADY AND YOUR LOVER
I write to you gentlemen on steemit. Your lady deserves much more from you. Maybe not deserve literarily. But if you love her, your love should qualify her for care, affection, love, attention and all that a lady needs to stay happy.
When your lady don't want to talk, it is generally because they don't feel safe, don't feel you care, or feel that you won't understand. This resistance can only be overcome by little persistence.
If she won't talk, as more questions until she dies.
When you don't know what to ask, say something. If you can't say something nice and positive or respectful, keep quiet.
Remain as calm and centered as possible, and keep a lock on your strong reactions.
If you can't make her happy and smile all day, then don't make her cry and sad in any way.
Experts says "The secret of supporting an emotional lady is to help her work through her feeling by getting her to speak more words".
You win by asking more, you lose by reacting like her words hurt.
When a lady is upset, it is extremely difficult for her to appreciate a man's explanations, or his entire rational approach.
Delay answering her questions when she is emotional instead, as more questions. Yes! Answer her questions by asking her to talk more. Ignore the temptation to defend yourself.
It's about communication. Good communication is a modern lady's lifeline. Without it, she loses touch with her ability to feel the love in her heart and receive the loving support of her man.
Your lady needs varieties to lift her boredom of routine home chores. She looks forward to trying new things with you. Be her man, be her lover. Get off your devices, get off the steem take her round the world. She's your lady and your lover.
@smartcarthy, @julietisrael, @oredebby, @nikolina, @cherylsonty, @kwinesther, @adejoke, @gee1 @princesserica @vheobong @annieben @utomobong, @evarich, @gracefavour and other #ladiesonsteemit do I deserve some chilled bottles? Or what do you have to say?
But why are you tagging ladies?
It is guys that needs to see this na 🤔
We already know that's what we want, are you ready to give all that to us?
As for the question 🤔
Do don't deserve any chilled bottle
You deserve some hot slap 🔥 ✋
I was thinking the same thing..why are the ladies tagged? Hehe, only saw this post because the wonderful lady @gracefavour resteemed it. You guys are funny!
Awww, thanks so much for stopping by Queenbee :)
Hehehhehehe. You were tagged so you can reblog or resteem for the real sugar of yours to see and learn.
I am just your salt. Lolz.
hahahahahaha can't stop laughing.
Oya desmond tag the guys oooo, lemme resteem sef so they can read.
Hiya lady Grace. 🙂
@beeyou I tagged the ladies so that they can share the link or resteem to their main man. Lolz.
Meanwhile. Let's all tag the guys we want they should see this.
@geekis show here. @oliverwilliams did you read this post? @ifioklee my boss. Get off the steem and give that special lady some attention.
Thanks man, this post is very timely because I needed a comfirmation of what I was teaching my son this even, Lol.
@desmonddesk the guru. We will meet in the other room.
Lol, I don't know that many guys on here but will tag several people so they can join in some light-hearted fun. I'm sure they all have a special someone in their lives they should give that extra attention to...right @lynncoyle1, @simplymike, @davemccoy, @jorlauski, @themanwithnoname, @artgirl, @pretty.dorky, @smylie2005, @leeart :)
Haha... I’m glad I’m on your list @beeyou. I’m afraid I’m not sure how to respond? I agree this is meant for the gentleman of steemit. It’s very sweet. I agree with it. @desmonddesk... #gentlemenofsteemit? Could be trending. Thx for the thoughtful post. My man isn’t on here, yet! He would agree also. He is THE SWEETEST MAN ON THIS PLANET! 💓
Awwwwwzzzz what's stopping that awesome sweetness of yours from being on steemit @pretty.dorky? I can get his account approved in 35 minutes. You can help him achieve that.
@beeyou what do you think? Let's get her sweetness on board. Hehehe
I guess I’ve been the guinea pig trying to learn steemit. My hubby AND my kids want accounts! My husband is a pilot. I’d love for him to blog about aviation! Who doesn’t love airplanes? They will join us soon I’m sure. How do you help get accounts approved? Mine took about a week I think.
Just get the free account if hubby wants to join steemit @pretty.dorky. Since he is not in a rush to come here given that he is busy traveling, just wait the week to open the free account. Save the steem.
oh yea, can't wait to get @pretty.dorky's sweetness on board. i know @desmonddesk is up to the task.
Yeah! @gracefavour. With 7 steem, I can get his ccount ready in 35 minutes. @pretty.dorky It is simple and stress free. You can chat me up on discord. desmonddesk#9412
I didn't want to just tag the guys, glad you stopped by for some fun. Your man has to be awesome for you to love him!
@geekis Teach your son to treat his woman right and you'll be a happy man.
Haha! So this is the reason for all the finding out about me more lol! I give all my attention to my special someone. I can safely say that I don't need this haha!
Lol, good! Wait, I thought you were charmed by my sweet smile?
I was and I am still but my heart is guarded lol!
Everyone seems to be guarding their heart on here. Must be a Steemit thing. I’m only playing with you @leeart. Always pay attention to that special someone. The problems pile up when you forget to do so and take their love for granted. Then it becomes time to guard that heart. Happy hearts day. I just made that up. 😉
Oh well where is my man? Still lost somewhere out there? Hahaha.
hehe @artgirl. Good guys sure are hard to find these days.
And so the Queenbee decides to leave her beautiful castle to take a stroll round steemit and here she is😍. Hi @beeyou, how is your weekend going?
I took a stroll around for a day and then winded up back in my castle @gracefavour! It took me a week to get back out to enjoy some friends time. Now the weekend is here again! Lol, I hope you have a beautiful weekend.
Lol this oga u really like woman sha😂, only u carry all dix plenty fine fine ladies..
Lolz @urchice. Make sure you don't come close to my ladies o... They are all #Taken lolzz
LOLZ
Even though a lot of times it's hard to understand us, women, you are really good at it. :)
I also resteemed in hopes that men out there will read this post and learn a thing or two.
Hehhehe... I always have ladies in mind... So i study what makes them happy @nikolina.
I have a book titled: LADIES MUST KNOW... Hehehehehe... The book shares so many things about cheating guys and how to identify them. #let-me-run-for-my-life-before-guys-shot-me
This is something more men should do.
I would get that book and throw it on some guy's faces, haha! :D
Hehehe.
Nice piceture romantice i like..
Nice one dear, you got it right there.
Buh mbok tag the guys jooh
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