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The Lord constantly gives us what we command. However, God gives us time and time again much more than we have or imagine. The secret of living depending on God and trusting in his will is knowing how to hear the yes, the no and the expectation of God.
Psalms 119:11
In my heart I have kept your sayings,
So as not to sin against you.
Reina-Valera 1960
The apostle Paul metaphorically stated that he had a thorn in his flesh, and asked the Lord 3 times to deliver him from which we do not understand exactly what it was, however it represented enormous suffering for Paul.
In the heart of man Only God can and definitely controls the outcome of our own concerns and choices, but God is in control of his world; we will go into this later in a controversy later. Because God is in control we are required to commit our own plans to Him. There is always an excuse, yet God knows the intentions and motives of the heart.
Only those who are intimate with God have the possibility of living in this degree of faith and submission to the Lord's will. In this way, dream, get organized, study, work, love, but put your whole life in the hands of God, entrust everything to him, be attentive to his Word so that your desires are compatible with it, that is the will of God.