New school versus old school parenting.

Hello everyone, it a great pleasure for me to be here with you all am really happy and I hope you are happy too. On this edition i will be participating on a contest that was organised by our follow steemian @okere-blessing about our parenting lifestyle.

But before i start I will like to invite @alexanderpeace @manuelhooks and @xkool24 to join this contest too.

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There's this saying that goes like this Spare the rod and spoil the child , Do you think is still valid in this new school parenting?

Spare the rod and spoil the child, this is a something that our parents back then didn't joke with. They do everything to make sure that they put you in the right way and in the right time. Looking into our society today you will notice that the statement is no longer value parents are no longer taking the necessary action on the children when they do something bad instead they try to come up with excuse of telling you that they are just a kid.

Looking it from the other way round you will also noticed that back then every parent both the poor and rich always make sure that discipline their child whenever they do something that is bad but in today's Gen-z generator only the poor with angers issue always take an action with the child when the do something that is not right while the rich ones do everything to bring up excuse in response to what the child has done and that is one of major things that some of little ones nowadays don't have a proper home training.

Do you think Old school parents were too strict compared to new school parenting?

Yea. Old school parents were always strict with their children not because they don't love them but because the want the best for them, the want to see them becoming something on the future. Looking into our society now will see that most of the our young girls nowadays don't know what decent dressing is all about mostly the one on social media.

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But back in the day of our parents being strict you hardly find the youth misbehaving because they know what the parent will do to them if the are seen put up that attitude which is nice in the eye of their or the environment. So parents be strict on their children doesn't mean that the don't love them it simple a way of putting them in a part the will lead them to the betterment of their future.

Which one were you raised ? Do you think you were raised right.

I was born in lately 19s and I know what I pass through the hand of my parents both of them show me hell on earth. I might not be the only here who always have that experience but I think my own was a little bit different from other because even when am at the right side I will still be facing a consequence for it.

Actually it was not like they didn't like me or anything, I come to understand that they were trying to lay a foundation for my other siblings that will be following me. And they actually succeeded because with one word all my little siblings obey me because if I pure all the things I pass through during my childhood to them , they will not be able to withstand it.

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Do you think we should go back to old school parenting or stick to new school parenting.

I think old school parents should be concerned while the child is in his early stage in life because the earlier the better. Due it may look like the parent doesn't like the child or something but it just about the future of child.

Am not saying that the new school parents are not taking care of their children but look I the life of someone that was raised by old school parenting and the new school ones and you will see the a very big different between the two of them, in terms of attitude, mood of respect and the way the speak with talking to elderly people you will know that the old school parents matter in the life of every child.

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