Dear Diary: Mother Told Me That My Brother Didn't Give Her Allowance This Month
My mother told me today that maybe the allowance that my brother was giving her is a pay for taking care of my nephew. Now that she is not taking care of my nephew the allowance also stopped. Because in my brother's house his in-laws also lives, the mother of his wife, the sister of his wife, and also the brother lives there too.
I assume that our allowances are used for my brother's in-laws so I am quite saddened for our situation with my mother as if we are being robbed for the benefit of my brother's in-laws. My allowance dwindled after my second nephew got born, it got slashed by a third.
Then after that it got slashed again after their house help (maid) asked for a raise. So part of my allowance went to her maid which after sometime took off without telling them. But my allowance didn't went back into its previous state and I was left out with relatively unsubstantial amount.
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Now that after some time my mother wasn't taking care of their child her allowance went kaput along with mine which I highly suspect is just going to my brother's in-laws because my sister-in-law's mother just got an operation and is recuperating in my brother's house. I just see my brother now as married to her wife's family too.
For me it is just okay not to get my allowance anymore, my brother is just a kind person. He is actually dependable comparing to my eldest brother who is not while my sister just isn't financially stable right now. But I am just concerned about my mother who is affected by not getting her allowance, it makes her sad and me in turn as well.
Waaaooooo hijo.
Una situación bien incómoda.
Pienso que tu hermano no debería dejar de darle una mesada a tu madre. Ella siempre esta y estará pendiente de sus nietos.
Tampoco hay que buscar tener problemas.
Seria bueno que ella hable con tu hermano y le explique lo importante de que la ayuda económicamente.
Saludos y Que Dios te Bendiga.
They must be patient, everything arrives in due time, do not worry so much that they will find a way to fill that space!
Difficult when families mix like that and the differences begin. I imagine your anger because your mother does not deserve that bad move, but strength and faith that nothing and no one should collapse.
一切都会好起来的！祝你早日康复，为你的母亲你也不能放弃！
Hay personas en este caso tu hermano que en vez de ayudar lo que hacen es empeorar las cosas para todos @cryptopie
Touch to ask God for the cryptocurrencies to increase their value and so you help your mother and the asinacion that was taken away does not make her more sad.
I'm sorry about the condition this case has put mum to. Just maybe your brother would have to get it that the in-laws are not entitled to constant benefits. He's also need to be reminded that he's got a mum to take care of.
Once the entitlement mentality is wiped off and priorities set right again, then I guess everything will be alright
Nobody is missing God, you will see that in some other way the money will arrive and your dear mother will not lack anything, because she is a noble being. God protect them.
It is sad to know that they go through situations like this friend, but to keep fighting is what they should do, at some point things will improve, and surely their brother will help them again! force friend @criptopie
face it all with sincere @cryptopie, do not worry too much. submit all to god, surely god will give the best way for your family @cryptopie. we pray that in the next few days will get the best way to face your family problems @cryptopie. hopefully......