Love Vs Respect ... ! The Two Sexes - Men And Women, Who Wants What ?

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When it comes to relationships, there are only two things which keeps them going, LOVE & RESPECT. Both are the high end emotions. One is fueled by affection and care, other is fueled by self-satisfaction. 

From the ages, people are fighting for these two things and some even died while fighting for it. Now, forget ages ago and concentrate on your past and present relationship. You would notice one thing, all your relationship whether they got messed up or sustained beautifully sometimes, it is only because of love and respect. 

There are two sexes, one is male and second is female. Now, the question is Are they really crave these two emotions equally or they prefer one over the another? This is really a question of great importance and asked by many.

The simply reply would be  : NO, both sexes prefers one more than the another, to a great degree. 

Men always demands respect more while Women demand more love.

Now, let's clear things up.

Human is a social animal for sure. He desires respect, love, happiness, attention and status. But these are the common emotions. If we narrow it down to love and respect and asked a man to choose one, then the majority of them would go for Respect. Why?

Simple, they work hard every now and then, they have a responsibility to support their families, they have to give their name to their next generation, they have to build their empire from the scratch and they have to make major decisions regarding the future of their family. While doing all these, they crave respect for their hard work. Men are designed to work as hard as they can. They give respect to their peers so that they would get it back from them. Respect satisfies them intrinsically. Of course, love is also important to them but respect is necessary for their survival.

On the other hand, Women demands more love. Women search for love in their whole lives and heart breaks are very common among women as their feelings have not been reciprocated every time. Sometimes, they felt the pain of heart break too much. Love truly makes the Women's world spinning. They search for true love their whole life. It's the urge of getting love, the women give this freely and unconditionally to their children. Because they know the value of love. They knows it's absence. Now, again respect is indeed important to them, but women need love crucially. 

Now, if I combine these two situations there are two outcomes. 

When men receive respect, they give love freely and while women receive love, they begin to respect deeply.

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Now for the relationships to work. Both the sexes has to do some efforts.

For Men- Give love to your woman, care for her, tell her how beautiful and caring she's is, fulfill all her needs, give her a smile every now and then ,and she will respect you unconditionally. She deserve Love, so treat her as such.

For Women- Respect your man, it's all he need. Respect his decisions, respect his choices, respect how he feel for you, respect his methods, don't show him his imperfections, don't just move your tongue all the time, rather give him never ending respect and surely he will love you in inevitably.

Keep in mind all these things, and make your relationships ever lasting.

Thanks for reading.

Source: http://www.yummymummyclub.ca/family/mummy/love-vs-respect


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Really great one ! Enjoyed your post .
Agreed with the line:
"Men always demands respect more while Women demand more love".

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Thanks my friend @akkha . I am glad you liked it and even enjoyed it .

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Thanks for sharing

awesomely awesome , i feel like you describe what i failed to ,
it's such a great feeling when someone touches something inside of you and describe the feelings that you couldn't
followed ya , upvoted and resteemed you really deserve more votes, my best wishes to you , keep posting

Thanks a lot my friend @mostafa1 You're very supportive and kind. It's great to have your support.

we're here to support each other , it's a pleasure to have someone like you
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pretty impressive post @cryptonet
"Love & Respect" go hand in hand in any and every relationship and every sphere of life ( for smoother functioning of society, which we all are part of !!!), as I believe!
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Thank you @cryptonet :)
Pleasure, indeed !
Your two sentences just "WON" my heart !
Lots of Love!!! Bro.

Great points even i do not fully agree , do you know for me always was hard to give love to people i do not respect . This for in our language we have 2 words for love. In one you can love people you actualy not really like and the other one is the true love feeling :)

That's a interesting concept. So basically there are two love in your language -- one is kinda forced love and second is true love. In india, sometimes girls marry someone who they don't love, just to please their families. They always represent this forced love. They dont love their forced partners but they had to love them in the end. So I am pretty sure I can relate with this. @patelincho

Sometimse we love even bad people but we do not respect them right ?

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