Seal Up That Crack, Contributed By @Olawalium.
In marriage, I have noticed that a lot of people become so careless and most especially the women. They feel they have the guy and they have to do nothing to impress him anymore. That is totally wrong and when a lady thinks this way, she is leaving cracks in the marriage. Men feed on emotions. They visualize things and it should match with their reality. He has been used to a particular you that looks dashing and beautiful and he gets home to you and you start wearing shower cap, scarf and tying wrapper up to your breast level. He would naturally lose interest and it won’t help in the long run.
A lady doesn’t want to be available emotionally for her husband and she got angry he is seeking solace in another lady. Not that they were intimate or loving up, but you can tell if the wife didn’t change then it is not far-fetched. Men love being needed. It turns them on to have their wife or girlfriend tell them ”I miss you”. It arouses in them a sense of responsibility and ladies often miss this. They feel all men need is sex or love making and that is wrong. It is not in all cases. Men love being needed. They enjoy when their wife or girlfriend give them that attention.
Ladies should stop being careless with their relationship or marriage. You have what others would readily give anything up for yet you are treating it with levity. I always say relationship and more so marriage, requires a lot of commitment. If you are not ready for the heat, don’t go near the kitchen. You need to be available for your husband. He needs your partnership. It’s important he feels he has you by his side; that he can count on you and your advice. He needs your consultations too and this is why I said it is not always about sex or love making. Be available to him as he is expected to be available to you too.
Men have this auto search button. Once you are not available to him, he would naturally gravitate towards someone who would provide comfort to him.
…to be continued…
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@olawalium sir!
Relationships are very precious and soft, they should be handled with a lot of flexibility. Continual innovation is essential for maintaining an interest in relationships. The person gets bored from the same routine. The marriage is expected not only from the male but also the equal responsibility of women,then the carriage of life can run gallop on love track.
Brilliant, absolutely brilliant. Good one, my friend.
@olawalium sir ! Your elder brother's marriage is going on this Saturday? Or completed previous Saturday? I am little bit confused.
This Saturday. You really keep up. I am so impressed and honoured. Thanks a lot.
Yes @olawalium ,the ladies should show positivity when husbands come back to home from office. That would raise her respect and it would be beneficial for both parties.
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Good one, my friend. We need to always reinvent ourselves and stay loveable.
@Olawalium
connections are valuable and delicate, they ought to be taken care of with a great deal of adaptability. Nonstop advancement is fundamental for keeping up an enthusiasm for connections. The individual gets exhausted from a similar daily practice. The marriage is normal from the male as well as the equivalent duty of women,then the carriage of life can run dash on affection track.
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