Human Nature, Contributed By @Olawalium
It baffles me to see humans behave in ways you never deemed possible. Well, maybe we sometimes expect too much of certain people and when they finally come short, it gives me this look of disappointment.
Some people are just very comfortable to cause chaos and they thrive on it. Maybe they want to seek relevance or they like being in control, I don’t know whatever their excuse might be, but really I am not really bothered. We sometimes expect the best of humans and yet they end up disappointing themselves and it hurts. Indeed, life doesn’t come with instructions and we keep seeing different aspects to humans as we grow and go through life.
I have seen the despicable character of humans and yet I get surprised even more as new things keep popping up. I have seen life with the number of years I have spent in this life and the surprises never seem to end a bit. We expect to see the best of humans but we should be ready to see their worst too. Life is in two folds; the good and the bad. I have enjoyed the best of humans too and I have been at the receiving ends of their gross misbehaviour too.
A lot of time we expect to see the best of others and when they act otherwise, we get hurt and rightly so. We get hurt the most from people we least expected but we need to understand that humans will always be humans. We need to make allowances for human behaviour. We need to understand that we are all different; shaped by different exposures and background, so it is logical that we should think differently.
I used to get angry when I see people do things I least expected but now, I just smile and turn to the other side, if I wasn’t too angry enough to tell the person what he or she has done wrong. You can pick the vibe from my attitude towards what you did. You will know without me saying words that would now make it escalate.
…to be continued…
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Human being are not predictable, most especially in attitudes, human being couldn't be put to test unless, the person isn't aware of, since, human being has the tendency of subject to change. No single person is static but rather dynamic in way they behave and see life.
It is not good to put our trust just in human as they are subject to change, rather someone have to be pessimistic so if response comes to be positive or negative one wouldn't mind compare to 100 reliance on it.
You will get hurt if you too, rely on human beings. They are bound to inflict pain on you. Though, there are some people that will cherish and respect you, stand by you still the end. Whether the going is palatable or otherwise.
Anyone who puts his hope and trust in humans sometimes will soon find out that humans are unpredictable but we can train ourselves to have some level of discipline and self-control and then be better humans. The sad reality is, most people don't want to be better because they are scared of the change. Integrity and being a man of one's word should be important to every human.
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