Should we always smile in our videos ? - Day 370 !
I will answer the question directly and say ''NO''.
I don't think that we should always smile in our videos.
Sometimes we are tired, sometimes we are sick, sometimes we are just in a bad mood.
Do you always smile in your life ? I don't think so.
Smiling is of course good and even healthy. In Russia for example, they say ''The more you smile, the longer you live''. It make you to be in better mood, to share your positivity with others and just to be cool.
Some people think that if you are always smiling in your vidoes, that means you'r faking that. But, what we have to do if we are in a bad situation, but we want to share only positive thoughts ? Of course we have to smile anyway.
I mean there is a lot of negativity in the world, especially if you watch news, you will see that. So, why not to smile even if we hardly can do it.
But, it's ok also to not smile if you don't want. I mean we can be strict or serious and serious and that's ok as well.
If you don't like something and you feel that you have to talk aboout that seriously, why you have to smile talking about that. Sometimes we just have to share our emotions even if they are negative we are people after all.
Maybe, it's off topic, but I just want to give an example about people complained about me, just because I tried to advice them. Maybe I should give that advice always with smiling face and that's the onlly way to not make them complain ?
Some of them complained about me just because I told them it's beter to show your face in the thumbnails to be noticed by dtube curators and have more chance to be upvoted by @dtube. Is that a bad thing I did by trying to help ?
Some people complained about me, just because I told them to reply to the comments because it will should the respect to your audiance and it will improve all @dtube community. Is that also bad thing to say ?
Some of them complained about me, just because they didn't like my videos, where I touch really important topics to make people grow and improve and that may way to do things !
But people will complain anyway, smile to them or not, you will always find some people who will not like you and that's life. Do you like everybody yourself ? lol Me neither ! ☺
Instead of complaining, you can go and create something. Stop complaining about those who are trying at least to create something good for the community !
So, the conclusion is :
That's ok to not smile if you don't want. ☺
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Haha. This post makes me smile. We can't please everyone. One of the many secrets of success is we can never make everyone smiles. Like you said. Love your smiling face though. People sure love smiling face right? I don't know... But yes, if we don't feel like smiling, it is okay too. We are free to express. For me, if I am in bad mood, I will not do video at all. Lol... =)
haha, not doing a video is a solution as well. But I make them everyday, so I have to show everything in my case. lol ☺
Still, I prefer your smiling face unless you are really sharing something that shakes you to the core. I don't think when we smile during tough time is faking it. I see it as we don't need to show our sadness to everyone. That is a strength. We have a phrase in Chinese culture, when we sulk, we sulk at home because people don't need to 'eat in' our sulky feeling. The world already has many negatives sad stories and we don't need to show if we don't need to. Haha. I am trying my best to say it in English.
So we were brought up that way. We don't go and show people and let the world know how tough our situation is.
I love your positive mindset. Always inspired. Keep it up @clixmoney. My regards to you and family. =)
Thanks a lot. ☺
Good thought
thanks.