What are Expectations?
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9 years ago in #life by clayboyn (70)
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What are Expectations?
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With everything that has happened to me, I honestly don't care if anyone sticks around or not anymore with everything I have been thru.
And the ones that do, are actually worth keeping in my life.
I make very little effort anymore, with people. It is just not worth it.
I hear ya, I'm not saying I would put up with hurtful or damaging behavior either, but if I trust someone enough to live with them for example, then I don't need to worry about their behavior because if they go down a path I don't want to travel myself, then I go find another path to go on myself. It doesn't change how I feel about them, but I'm never going to feel obligated to stay around anyone that doesn't show me the same respect that I show them.
Nice one about the people leaving our lives to go their path and coming back later and carrying on as before.
If we can't handle someone not being in our life, then I imagine something is not really right in that situation. I am sure I came across as obsessive, but the NDE really fucked me up. I can now see all of the things that weren't said, and not make assumptions. I have figured out that just because a synchronicity seems to tell me something, I shouldn't assume I know exactly what it means.
I hear that.
Like the song on the 333 the other day. If I took it as correctly indicating who I think it did. I shouldn't assume it means she is falling in love with me. If she is and is losing control, what she is losing control of would be a major detail to figure out before getting involved. I don't want to assume anything about anyone anymore. If it's going to happen it will. For all I know, I agreed to help her, got sent back, one day she calls and says she needs a ride, that's the memory I was shown, and we never cross paths again. Obviously I hope that isn't the case, but with self love and purpose, I can't wait around hoping she is going to call. I got shit to do lol.
Assumption is a deadly assassin, and of course you got shit to do haha.