FIGHT YOUR OWN DEMONS

Before you get into a new relationship,you have to fight your own demon first and overcome! Fight your family issues and past relationships and overcome don't push loads on people, everyone got theirs
Is not a bad idea to meet someone new so you can erase your previous broken soul,its totally bad when you push everything on them,both the remedy and the consequence, do them a favour by getting over those demons and not fix them at where they will fight to stay and stay to fight. Maybe you were brutally disorganized either mentally or otherwise, you really need to heal rather than let someone pay for what they had no idea about. Neither do you know theirs and the hell burning their inner soul. Fix some of your mess
If you are not totally free from your past, let your present slide,don't drag another party into it, if you know you still have an atom of positivity for it be stable before you move again before you fall and hit someone else or stain their lives.
Stop testing some things, stop trying to see if they will work,if they aren't what you want,don't pend them,free them from bondage.
If your family is your problem fix it properly, everyone knows their problem and its root, don't let people carry unknown loads
No one can fix you than you