Life is all about you; Stop making someone's success intimidate you.

in #motivation7 years ago

Greetings fellow steemians

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If you feel unsatisfied about your life, you need this post.
I've been in that shoes in my past where I feel my mates and equals have gone much ahead of me. And those times the thoughts of comparing my life with theirs creeps into my mind. I'd regret a lot and wish I was better.
I know many of you feel this way, But I got better because I stopped the self pity, I stopped believing myself to be less, I stopped comparing myself, I stopped wishing to be them.

If you're reading this, I want you to know that you are the best of yourself, the life you are living today is exactly the life you need. Stop pitying yourself because of your setbacks. Setbacks helps us breakthrough.
Channel the strength you use to compare yourself with other, to working on yourself, read books; I know reading requires a lot of discipline, but cultivate that habit, Spend more time with yourself, make a plan, have a goal, manage your time, separate yourself from people who can't help you improve. Define where you want to be, know how you want to get there, discover the price it'll take for you to get there, and prepare yourself to pay the price. Your life will get better when you take your eyes off people's life.

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No matter how much you feel you've not achieved. That is a sign of greatness. It is a sign of greatness to even acknowledge that you should have been more, that you should have been better, it means you know that you can be great. But stop being negative. Stop desiring people's life. Your life is the best for you, that's why God gave it to you.
In whatever mess you find yourself, remember your life is someone's else desire. Remember there are people that wish to be like you. Look beyond all you've not achieved and appreciate the fact that you are better than some people who don't even have the consciousnesses of achieving more.

Sometimes the people we feel are prefect are only expressing a facade. Wearing nice clothes, using smart gadgets, driving flashy cars, doesn't mean one is enjoying life. The peace of mind you have and the ability to go into that your hut you consider poor and sleep in peace is a rare gift.
Put your eyes off people's life. You have your own. Your life can't get better than how much time you spending working on it. Life is all about you. Stop making someone's success intimidate you, because one day you will be successful. Build your esteem and know that your value doesn't depend on what you lack. You will be great.
You have what somebody doesn't have. Always remember.

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True talk sir. I am always mindful of that

Have really learnt a lot from dis, thanks for sharing

Thanks for this

You're welcome

Make yourself comfortable. Appreciate other people's success but do not let it get into your head so you don't tend to move pass your shadow.

You just said it all thanks for stopping by

Nice motivational speech.

Someone's sucess challenges me to forge ahead and work harder. It has never intimidated me, instead i ask how i can learn as well.have really been learning from @smyle and @sweetestglo, i love them, never intimadated by them

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