Should I Move To My Own Place?
Damn! what a horrible day today... for those who did not know I'm working from home, specifically with my paretns. I decided to stay here as my home and working place after I lived outside for 2 years. I returned here because I want to help out my parents with some financial and support like doing stuff for them, that "good son vibe thing..."
Recently I have been so stressed living here and it is all about my mom.. I'm old enough to don't stand thing like being yelled and I hate that shit, because makes me feel like they don't see I'm good enough for my decision to moving here with them 2 years ago...
My mother has a very very bad temper and I can barely stand it, I was in conference with a client this morning and she entered my office yelling that I had to help with everything at home like bringing my father's helmet to his working place... and I was.. so embarrased with my client... Jesus.. that was bad... Seriously sometimes I don't know what's wrong with my mother, I pay the house bills, help with cleaning the whole house, buy the cats food, I send money to my sister because she is at collegue, I prepare the food every night and even though I'm still yelled like I was a kid?
Seriously.. I'm considering moving to my own place after what happened this morning... it was very frustating that my client had to listen to that yelling. The only problem is that my parents are getting old and they are in a bad financial shape... for now writting this post helped me alleviating my frustration, I had called my client and there is not answer yet... I hope that everything will be fine on the current contract because I'm worried about it.
I have nothing more to say.. I will tell you what I decide at the end.
Have a good day friends....
I understand your situation... give yourself time to deal with such situations... u are a kind person u care for your parents... think about what is best for u and your family both listen to your heart in a fresh mood of yours :) GOOD LUCK!
Thanks for understanding.. I'm starting to feel better. I should talk to them
yep :)
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Help your parents, but if finances allow, move asap.
Best decision in my life although I'd be at 0$ each month due to rent. Still would be worth it. Crypto helps lately though
Thanks friend, yeah it is reasonable..
Thanks for all your arduous work, here's a bunch of token of appreciation!
I can only imagine how you feel. I would not appreciate if my mother did that to me. However parents have different ways of raising there kids, tough love can be one of them. You seem to have an extremely good work ethic, maybe it's also because of your parents being strict with you ?
I have a friend and he was always spoiled by his parents. He doesn't have a job and hasn't had one for a while because his parents are always too nice to him and let him do what he wants.
However considering that you are now already a grown up and you have shown that you can take care of not only yourself but also your entire family I think you should tell your mum exactly how you feel. Considering the hard work you do you deserve to be treated respectfully and maybe some good communication can help to solve the problem .
Hey my friend! thank you for your words. That is correct, my childhood was a ver strict one I thank my mom for making me a hard worker and my dad for giving me the good ethic.
I will speak to them tomorrow when everything goes down a bit, thanks buddy.
My pleasure, Family is always complicated, but the things that
Matter the most usually are hehe. Take care buddy !
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