The Issue Career Oriented Women Are Running Into

in #dtube6 years ago


For high value educated women the window of opportunity to have children is getting smaller over time. If you have seen the first 10 minutes of Idiocracy that pretty much sums up a lot of what is happening in the United States. Female doctors could seemingly have the hardest time finding someone because medical school is so demanding and essentially requires a woman to give up her 20's. By the time they are done with a fellowship or residency they could be 31 or 32 leaving almost no time to have kids. A woman's fertility can go down by 75% by the age of 35 and they consider pregnancies at 35 and older geriatric pregnancies. This is the actual medical term. There is a lot higher risk of issues during the pregnancies and oftentimes women have to take fertility drugs and jump through a lot of hoops to try to have a kid. Honestly it makes a lot more sense for women to just focus more towards being a mom when she is in her 20's and 30's and then she can focus on her career when the kids are a little older but so many women are trying to reverse the order for various reasons.


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There was one woman who wrote a book that said "Women can have it all, they just have to do everything in a different order."

  1. First marriage and kids
  2. Then schooling
  3. Then career.

However, most women who go into medical study are there to find a doctor to marry.

I do agree with the order listed for the most part. College seemingly would be a great place to meet someone but oftentimes a lot of the girls get so addicted to teasing and playing hard to get that in the end they don't end up with anyone and then they get in the work force with a bunch of cubicle drones and then they make excuses all the time and buy into the idea that they are going to work their way up....etc.

Some of the most annoying women I have met have been mid 30's women in San Francisco who have never been married and don't have kids and keep telling themselves they can have it all but in reality they have passed on 1000's of guys over the years and don't realize that their fertility is diminishing and their sexual market place value is decreasing because their fertility is going down and their stressful lifestyle is taking its toll....etc.

Yes... these women...

The 30s "career" woman.

Waiting for their prince charming to come in and rescue be their equal partners.... err, i mean slaves. The dizney story is strong with these ones.

And they're burning their candle at both ends and the middle.

  • Every promotion means they have shrunken the pool of guys they would consider marriageable.
  • Her SMV is dropping because of age
  • and its dropping like a stone because of her stressful position.

But, since her entire thoughts are on finding a person that has a better position then she has, she thinks what she does for a living makes her "hot stuff" to any guys.

News flash: most guys don't care what you do for a living.
Actually no, guys are starting to care. If the whamynz has a bullshit-made-up-diversity-hire-meaningless job (with a title), they are likely to run away.

...unless of course, she's hot

I want a woman with ambition and that is fine if she has her job / career or whatever but it is when they act like they have everything together an their "career" is so important.

They will say it something like this. Well I have a CAREER!!!

Then when they don't like my explanation about what I do that is pretty much the end of that which is somewhat humorous because once again they just passed on another guy.

One who is actually traveling around the world, owns his own time, is athletic ......etc.

But I just know it isn't me...... they passed on 1000s solid dudes because they thought what they were doing is so important.....etc.

There have been a couple times when the whole thing of what they were doing was so important and I dropped the Mic on her. "You aren't curing cancer and have sold your time freedom and fertility to be a gear in someone else's machine."

It was savage but I just put her in her place.

Population is an issue, more people need to avoid marriage and kids. Tax credits should be given to those that do not breed instead of the other way around.

Hahha, I like that concept. It is a hard situation to figure out because if the population explodes you potentially have more tax payers to harness the burden of the aging population and the ponzi social security system but the way the laws are these single moms with 6 kids my 4 different dads are really weighing on system.

Social security wont matter much if we do not deal with the issues an exploding populations causes to the environment.

Maybe we should send violent criminals to Mars to reduce the population some.... kind of how they sent people to Australia back in the day. :-)

I guess there is global warming on Mars as well. I think our Sun is heating up some.

I mostly think about lots of people and limited resources, global warming could be the solution to these issues.

Thanks for sharing your creative and inspirational video!


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