Is Normal In Love? How To Let Go Of Your Beliefs And Focus On His Feelings

in #life4 years ago


While normal is very overrated, this saying may not be true for the reason that there are instances in which it is normal and you need to have to understand the details. The reality is that it is true to some extent and your relationship will survive. There are ways of easing the pain by handling things better than normal, but we have to learn to do it correctly.

Do you need to put your boyfriend in a box and put him in a normal state? Of course not, but it is necessary for you to know and understand that it is not possible to fix things or to reverse the negative changes that occurred. On the other hand, you can use common sense to determine if your actions or words might cause harm to him, even if you don't realize it.

It is also true that normal is very overrated. There are times when you have to defend him because the situation isn't normal. You need to know how to handle these situations so that they don't end up in a bad situation. Understanding the problems of others is a key to winning arguments or finding ways to end them in the most advantageous way.

If you feel that your man is doing things because he feels insecure about himself or because he feels that he has been wronged, then it is better to just leave him be rather than getting into a fight to try to find out the right reasons. Your words or actions will hurt him and will not help you achieve your goals. You don't have to answer to anyone but yourself and if he decides to leave, he will do it his own time.

If you don't feel good about yourself, then you should address it with your boyfriend. Remember that it is normal to question your own personality or judgment. You will have to express what is bothering you.

If you have different standards from others, you should take some time to understand how others feel about you. You must also decide what is best for you and for your partner. Even if they are putting in extra effort to get back together, it doesn't mean that your efforts will be put to waste.


Feeling very good about yourself is not something that everyone can do all the time. Some people don't like to share their feelings because they think that it will make them jealous or that it will hurt them. The reality is that everyone is unique and everyone's feelings are different.

Be honest about your feelings. You have to find out what is making you happy, so you can share this with your partner. By listening to him, you will gain a deeper understanding of what he is going through and how to resolve your issues as well.

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