Decide what you want, believe in yourself, tap into the technological and information world.
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The indispensable first step to getting the things you want out of life is, "Decide what you want"
Once you have decided why you're in a certain place, you have to decide what you want to do, be, and have.
What do you want to accomplish? What do you want to experience? And what possessions do you want to acquire?
In the journey from where you are to where you want to be, you have to decide where you want to be. In other words, what does success look like to you?
One of the main reasons most people don't get what they want is they haven't decided what they want. They haven't defined their desires in clear and compelling details.
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Have you made up your mind to leave the mentality of the industrial age which is go to school, get a good grade and secure a good job that can guarantee your retirement benefits.
We're in the information age, so there's no job I can tag good in the information age because it still demands your time and you cannot be financially free because little or nothing will be left for your retirement.
Embrace technology, the 21st century business that can guarantee your financial freedom by working from home.
***You Have To Give Up All Your Excuses***.
99% of all failures come from people who have a habit of making excuses
If you want to create the life of your dreams, then you're going to have to take 100% responsibility for your life as well. That means giving up all your excuses, all your victim stories, all the reasons why you can't and why you haven't up until now, and all your blaming of outside circumstances. You have to give them up forever.
You have to take the position that you have always had the power to make it different, to get it right, to produce the desired result.
For whatever reason, ignorance, lack of awareness, fear, needing to be right, the need to feel safe... you choose not to exercise the power.
Who knows why it doesn't matter. The past is the past. All that matters now is that from this point forward you choose...that's right, it's a choice...you choose to act as if (that's all that's required...to act as if) you're 100% responsible for everything that does or doesn't happen to you.
If something doesn't turn out as planned, you will ask yourself, "How did I create that? What was I thinking? What were my beliefs? What did I say or not say? What did I do or not do to create that result? How did I get the other person to act that way? What do I need to do differently next time to get the result I want?
The basic idea is that every outcome you experience in life (whether it is success or failure, wealth or poverty, health or illness, intimacy or estrangement, joy or frustration) is the result of how you have responded to an earlier event or events in your life. If you don't like the outcomes you're currently getting, there are two basic choices you can make >>>>
#. You can blame the event for your lack of results
Or
#. You can instead simply change your responses to the event...the way things are...until you get the outcomes that you want
"If you don't like your outcomes, change your responses"
The number one problem that keeps people from winning is *lack of believe in themselves* ***Napoleon Hill once said***, *"Whatever the mind can conceive, it can achieve"* In fact, the mind is such a powerful instrument, it can deliver to you literally everything you want. But, you have to believe that what you want is possible. Scientists used to believe that humans responded to information flowing into the brain from the outside world. But today, they're learning Instead that we respond to what the brain, on the basis of previous experience, expects to happen next. 
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Doctors in Texas, for example...the effect of arthroscopic knee surgery...assigned patients with sore, worn-out knees to one of three surgical procedures: scraping out the knee joint, washing out the joint or doing nothing. During the *"nothing"* operation, doctors anesthetized the patient, made three incisions in the knee as if to insert their surgical instruments, and then pretended to operate. Two years after surgery, patients who underwent the pretend surgery reported the same amount of relief from pain and swelling as those who had received the actual treatments. The brain expected the "surgery" to improve the knee, and it did.
Why does the brain work this way? Neuropsychologist who study expectancy theory say it's because we spend our whole lives becoming conditioned. Through a lifetime's worth of events, our brain actually learns what to expect next...whether it eventually happens that way or not. And because our brain expects something will happen a certain way, we often achieve exactly what we anticipate. This is why it's so important to hold positive expectations in your mind. When you replace your old negative expectations with more positive ones, when you begin to believe that what you want is possible, your brain will actually take over the job of accomplishing that possibility for you. Better than that, your brain will actually expect to achieve that outcome.
*"You've got to believe in yourself"* you can be anything you want to be, if only you believe with sufficient conviction and act in accordance with your faith; for whatever the mind can conceive and believe, the mind can achieve. 
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True talk Bro. Thanks for sharing
Decision plus action equals good success. Nice post brother.
indeed a man of success is a made with apt preference and is quick to make quick to make decision. We have to imbibe this in our daily living for it enable us to plan all the way to the end.
thanks for the share
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saying i cant is prophesying negativity into your life. i will always say i can
That's so true. What we believe and behold we soon become.
What we believe is what we are and what we will be seen as